Never thought he'd harrass me this much
Never thought he'd harrass me this much
I am giving him no shit, I haven't contacted him since the early hours of Friday, so it's been three days. I worked out how to divert all his messages to another inbox so I never noticed when he was texting me.
Tonight at about 6.50pm he rung me and I never heard my phone go off but he rung twice and left a voicemail, I was at dinner at this time and listened it was him saying he needed to see me and he wasn't doing ok.
I got the password for my message inbox and this is what he's been texting..
Saturday
12.22am come over?
7.41pm so am I only going to hear from you when you're drunk?
9.22pm Okay, we ignoring me now huh. That's cool, I shall not contact you anymore and will ignore you also. Don't, repeat, don't ever call me drunk again. Goodbye.
Sunday (today)
4.38pm Can you please come over, I can't handle this. I miss you.
4.46pm I can come to you if you'd rather. Please, I need to see you. Remember how you got and didn't eat, had your friend text me and all? I'm the same..
5.01pm Stop ignoring me, considering I never ignored you this is very cold-hearted!
5.18pm Just never give that necklace away, it means a lot to me as it was my sisters. I figured you wouldn't accept it if I told you (his sister isn't real I found out very recently - that old trick ain't going to work on me no more!!)
6.59pm Meet me by your field. I see your lights are on. You can't do this to me. Please see me
7.04pm Please just hear me out. Why are you doing this? Please hun, please. I'm going nuts here
7.09pm I saw you and let you stay after 1am calls, and you can't even give me 5 fucking minutes? I'm struggling here, it's my sisters birthday on sunday, first time away from her.(what does that mean? she passed away in 1999. But she doesn't exist) I need someone please! I'm begging you!
7.18pm I stayed in wellington for you and you turn you back just like that! Thanks, I'll go back to Auckland, that's what you want aye.
7.19pm ANSWER ME FOR FUCK SAKE!
7.49pm I love you, I miss you, I need you. I'm nowhere as strong without you in my life. I just sit here staring at the two photos I have of you, just sit and get tearful
8.01pm Please....
8.23pm Just come see me tonight, hear me out. If you still don't want to know me after that, then so be it. Please, you're my heart and I'm dying without it.
8.53pm If you love me, please at least answer me my heart.
So I got my password off my friend a few hours after I got the voicemail, I read these out to my friend and I rung a counselling phoneline she said to write him a letter and say to leave me alone but the thing is - i'd be contacting him then and I can't do that!!! So I got my friend to ring him and tell him to not contact me anymore or I'll take it further (court order) he said that's a bit unnessecary isn't it?
He text me after she had made the call saying..
10.07pm Ironic how you have someone threaten me with police action for harrassment due to text messages, (no way, it was because you were outside my fuckin window you creep - obviously you are messed up cos you don't realise that's why!!) yet your numerous phone calls, texts and 2am visits seen in the same context. Thanks for having her call though, has certainly answered a few questions.(clearly meaning, cool going to add you to my huge my ex's are crazy list - but I am so ok with that!!!) Goodbye.
Wow what a rant, really needed to get that out.
He sucks, I have a test tomorrow and haven't had the mental capacity to study for it after ALL of this shit.
Comments? Concerns? Thoughts? Anyone been through something similar? On one of my phones all his texts are blocked completely. Kinda glad that I had them divert on my main line as then I did really realise how psycho he is and to act on that as otherwise I am sure I would have bumped into him as he lives down the road... and he would have made a scene then I reckon.... :(
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