need some input on last post (he died)

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#1 Jun 3 - 3PM
needing2know
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need some input on last post (he died)

His service will be held tomorrow, his kids want me to be there, I am lost, I know in my heart that when someone NORMAL dies you pay your last respects, he was not normal, I didn't have respect for a man that mistreated me, i love those kids like I love my own, the nothing part of me wants to be there for them and help them any way I can, but the survivor in me says let them deal with it not my problem, their own mother isn't even there for them.
I'm so lost and so torn, any advice would be so wonderful right now.

Jun 3 - 6PM
CeeCee
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Sorry forgot to ask this,

Jun 3 - 5PM
Janie53
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Needingtoknow

Jun 3 - 5PM
CeeCee
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I think that you should go.

Jun 3 - 4PM
Tigerlily
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If going gives you closure, then I would go.

Jun 3 - 3PM
Belle de jour
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I think it's your right not

Jun 3 - 3PM
Lucky Escape
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this is such a heart wrenching situation

Jun 3 - 3PM (Reply to #6)
needing2know
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LE

Jun 3 - 3PM (Reply to #8)
Goldie
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I'm with Layla

Jun 3 - 3PM (Reply to #7)
Lucky Escape
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Your anger at him is

Jun 3 - 3PM
Layla
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Personally, I'd go.

Jun 3 - 3PM (Reply to #2)
needing2know
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Thats why I am torn, I love

Jun 3 - 3PM (Reply to #4)
Hunter
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I think you skip it and have

Jun 3 - 3PM (Reply to #3)
TruthbeginsToday
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Ask yourself these