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The NC is impossible because I have to see him at work....

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#1 Jul 24 - 12PM
Tigiangel
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The NC is impossible because I have to see him at work....

Seeing him at work every so often just rakes up all the emotions over & over again. I feel strong then,.. I see him ( we don't talk) and my head goes into a spin and I walk around with this big black cloud over my head for days feeling so down & depressed. I've been really good with the NC outside of work, I've read so much about the Narc & their traits & behaviour but then I see him....and wham! I saw him yesterday, my stomach did somersaults, I miss him,.... Long for him it's ok I know I'm actually missing the person he pretended to be before the mask slipped and he wasn't real but I'm going round in circles with this and I beat myself up when I shouldn't. I feel so sad he is the way he is, he was lovely before he revealed his true, inadequate self. I go for a few weeks without having to see him then he's back in the office again and there is nothing I can do about it. :-(

Note to self: do not get involved with anyone you work with again!

Nov 17 - 10AM
lostmymind71
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The NC is impossible because I have to see him at work....

Aug 19 - 3PM
Peacenlove
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A year later...

Nov 17 - 10AM (Reply to #12)
Tigiangel
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Well.........

Nov 17 - 6PM (Reply to #13)
Peacenlove
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Hang in there!

Aug 29 - 12PM (Reply to #8)
Peacenlove
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Mine quit! Now I can finally

Aug 29 - 2PM (Reply to #9)
Luckyescape
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Fantastic news

Aug 29 - 5PM (Reply to #10)
Peacenlove
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Thanks for the reassurance

Sep 10 - 3PM (Reply to #11)
Peacenlove
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Hovering

Aug 17 - 9AM
Rinalda
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It does get better

Jul 24 - 2PM
Hunter
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UGH!!

Jul 24 - 1PM
Jenna H
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Tigiangel

Jul 24 - 3PM (Reply to #2)
Tigiangel
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Not really....

Jul 24 - 3PM (Reply to #3)
Jenna H
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Thanks TA!

Jul 24 - 5PM (Reply to #4)
Tigiangel
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Absolutely