NARCSPEAK - His words

These are his words and the things he said to me. The first part is our first conversation. Maybe some can be added to the list.

There is a reason God brings people into your life and not everyone will see your value right away, like ME

I see your value.

You inspire me

I was in your geographical location, but was vexed about meeting up with you.

There are a lot of hostile people in this world and I'm not one of them - trust me (yet he hung up on me)

I want you to keep the communication going and tell me how you feel, even if you are angry with me or hate my guts I want you to say, I hate you.

Don't stop keeping in touch with me. Keep the communication going, something good will come out of it.

Pull out your Bible and read this.

You are a genius like my brother, but your thinking is askew, but it doesn't bother me, in fact I would like to help with that.

You have a temperment similar to mine "melancholic", but you have a lot of gifts and that's what I like to do is help people who have special gifts.

I was fired a year ago, and I hadn't worked for a year but because of the website you created for my brother, you "inspired me" to get out of my own self pitty and go for the job that I wanted.

I'm going to teach you how to forgive your father and I want you to repeat these words.

I know where you have been because I use to hate my mother - and I mean hate and my father, that's why I know you have to heal from this and I'm going to help you.

Why do you take me off your friend list on facebook. It hurts. (But when I had him on there he would frequently ignore.

- Second Phone Conversation

I asked if he was going to call me because he said he would a few days earlier. He replies giving me his number "Call me! Baby PLEASE CALL ME, please".

I called, and he said "is this your number, I'm going to call you right back". (Couldn't understand why he didn't realize it was my number since I had called before).

He called right back, and proceeded to teach me about myself, told me to get onto the computer and pull up facebook so I could read his messages. Then said to me, "let me pull mine up to, so I can go through all of these f**kin messages you've sent me". (me in shock because he had never cursed before and told me he was in a christian ministry to help people)

Your behavior is like a child playing a game with a group of kids, and because he/she didn't get their turn, they take the ball away (he later explained he was calling me childish and selfish).

I want to know your soul, I want to know everything about you. What is causing you so much pain. I then told him it was my weight. He then asked how much I weighed. I didn't feel comfortable, so then he yelled, "How much do you weigh or I'm hanging up!!". I don't want to, "IM HANGING UP!!!!!!!!". Ok! Then I tell him, then he says "are you serious?"

I'm going to give you my numbers (home, cell and work) and please DO NOT give anyone my phone numbers DO YOU HEAR ME!!!!!!

In reference to my weigh and how I feel about myself "Baby, I think you are trying to reach for things that are not in reality on the basis of what other people think".

We are going on a date tonight. He said on the phone. Where do you want to go?

Are you fishing for a story!!!!!!!!!

You are my brother are melancholic to an extreme. damn! I'm at least at little choleric, you two are extreme!

(He started huffing and puffing over the phone, acting irritated so I asked him what was wrong), he replies -- Why are you worrying about what I'm thinking!!!!!!

I'm interested in YOU

You're always breaking up with me and taking me off your friend list on facebook.

I asked him why he got fired a year ago (as he told me during our first conversation). He replies:

"What are you talking about? When did I tell you that -- are you fishing for a story!!!!!!!!!!"

I explained no, and asked him why is it ok for him to ask me so many personal questions but I can't ask anything. He replied

"Because your asking stupid questions!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! - hung up"