Narcissistic Dealbreakers?
Narcissistic Dealbreakers?
My "n" and i had a non-closure sort of "break-up" about 2 1/2 months ago. I sought closure. I guess it was a mistake. My weak boundaries allowed him back and he has been hoovering big.
After some of the reading and research I have done, I am feeling that the "safest" way to end things with him would be to find a way to have him feel like breaking up is *HIS choice*. I know this is manipulative, and a farrrr cry from my principles; HOWEVER, I am feeling in my gut that he feels i am somehow HIS to do with as he pleases. And if I break up with HIM, he will be angry (Narc injury to the max!); and if HE breaks up with ME ....well, in some cases it may be truly SAFER to face the D&D.
Could anyone help me think of something that would be a "dealbreaker" for a Narcissist???
Narcs are all about control.
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Considering I was the one who left...
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