Narcissist and heavy drinker girlfriend

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#1 May 25 - 5PM
alfrebob
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Narcissist and heavy drinker girlfriend

Anyone have experience to help me understand this relationship.

My Ex was a psychopath with a long history of abusing wives and his children.

He is now in another relationship. I do understand after many hours reading this board and in therpay that he can never change.

All I do know is that he has been with GF for nearly two years. When I was with him he was a very heavy drinker as his ex wives will also confirm. In fact don't know how his liver is still functioning. He was a psychopath, cruel, abusive, sadist, liar, womaniser, brainwasher, emotional and physical abuser to woman and his children.

His GF and her friends who he now socializes with are all heavy drinkers.

Anyone have any knowledge of what a relationship would be like between an alcoholic Narc and a woman with a heavy drinking woman? BTW she now works for him and he pays her wages and she lives in his house if that helps with further info.

May 25 - 6PM
quietude (not verified)
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alfrebob

I know it's hard but for your own well being, you somehow have to get to a place where you BLOCK news about him and this other woman. Who cares what they do?? A heavy drinking woman?? You know, I'm surprised I didn't turn into that being with my exN!!! You can drive yourself crazy thinking about OW, but in the end, you're not with him...which is believe it or not a HUGE reason to celebrate. Toxic people and their drama...not part of a healthy life.
May 25 - 9PM (Reply to #2)
Barbara (not verified)
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narcnarc

where's NarcNarc... I bet she'd have some insight into this... sounds very enmeshed with dovetailing Pathology ~~~~~~~~~ Moving Forward: Coaching for Victims Pathologicals Feelings buried alive never die. - Alice Miller