The Narcissist and children
The Narcissist and children
This is my first day of starting no contact.
We left off with him telling me to erase him completely from my memory. Delete EVERYTHING, he said. Forget me. We left on civilized terms.
I got books, and books on Narcissism and self help. and a therapy session on Wed. ha....ha...
This is tough. I pushed it to this point. I made him want nothing to do with me because I couldn't stand the treatment and demanded answers. So much so, that he wants nothing to do with me! I am worthless to him now, and I've ruined the chance of him ever wanting me back. :(.
Even AFTER reading all of the awful things.. I still miss him. Still want him. This is why I am going into therapy. lol. I know it's idiotic.
I wondered.. thinking back. He would go off all the time about having kids. He was "baby hungry". It may just be his "thing". The way he flirts with girls is by saying they better be careful or he'll "get them pregnant". He prided himself on how good he is with kids. And I came to thinking. What if that is the one thing that makes this type of man change? He told me, if he had gotten me pregnant, he probably would have stayed in love with me. Changed his life around. I almost think he is going to get a girl pregnant just to keep her. and have an excuse to actually stay loyal to someone and turn his life around. So, now I am jealous of the future girl he knocks up. .. Sad, I think up all these things.. knowing I don't ever cross his mind. Not ever. He's living life, and I am dwelling.
My question, those of you that have had children with a narcissist.. Did he change? In what ways? Good, bad. Stay the same? How was he with the kids?
N's & kids
bb
He just got worse
empathy
children
He sounds dangerous...
not that it matters
Wanting to get women pregnant...
Thanks for all of the
He takes care of the bills
I've even asked him
BB - Exactly
BB, yes it's an illusion.
BB, I hope you don't feel
Narcs are TERRIBLE for kids...
My narc and his kids.....
I agree with these ladies.
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
bb--children
WTH Helldweller!
michele115
narcs and children
oh and I just want to add....
BB :(
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BB
Narc's Children
Fawn
In my case....