Narc words versus Narc actions....
Narc words versus Narc actions....
Oftentimes, we are confused by the mixed messages that we receive from the Narc. Sometimes they will tell us something that makes us think that perhaps we were wrong in judging them to be a Narc. Sometimes they will tell us that they love us and then minutes, hours, days later they will make a snide comment that cuts us down. Sometimes when we suspect a Narc is up to no good, he will gaslight us with his words until we question ourselves. It is important to remember that Narcs will use words in order to get a certain outcome (and it is always to their benefit). When faced with words that do not add up, I always compare those words with how the Narc acts. More often than not, the actions are not congruent with the words. Do not fall prey to the wonderful sounding words if he is treating you poorly. This is why I do not trust Narc words, I trust Narc actions. Narc words can be manipulated, Narc actions cannot.
I have a spin on this...seems
I'm not talkinag about a
House Devil, Street Angel
Well after breaking up 2-3
I used to say....toward the
words
Examples of Words versus Actions Mismatch....
Great reminder!
TNR, this is one of the key
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