The narc was a genius at NLP!

The more I read all this information the more I am horrified at the level of sociopathic behaviour! The ex narc is a mental health nurse. I hope I'm allowed to share that on here! You'd think a profession like that would indicate he had empathy but believe me he didn't! He even said on a regular basis he did mental health as he was interested in how the mind works and the fact it was not nursing as you'd think it's usually a bit more office and paperwork in the uk. He was a big book worm and constantly read the DSM and called it his bible! Funny that because I'm sure narcissism is in there some where! But I remember him being obsessed with NLP and hypnosis and he even wanted to use me as a guinee pig! I truly believe there is nothing he doesn't know about the manipulation of the human mind! This is totally his area of expertise to say he's newly qualified he talks and behaves like a professor with the knowledge to go with it! Unreal! No wonder he had me fooled all this time and I'm sure his ex of 6 years before me has prob had her fair share and he's still in touch with her! When getting together with me he was still openly going out for lunch with her and meeting up with her regularly! I'm sorry if I'm babbling a lot tonight on the forum but I think I may have opened Pandora's box as I'm remembering all these weird and bizarre behaviours and I think I've just realised that I've left some one very dangerous and damaged! He used to say he liked doing hobbies but never really got good at anything as he got bored he did drums piano guitar you name it he's done the lot but I tell you guys something the art of manipulation he is a master! I'm not sure I really feel pity for this man anymore I did at first n couldn't help thinking his parents abusive nature has contributed to this but my feelings are slowly starting to change. I had a bad childhood my mothers a narc but I wouldn't hurt a fly infact I have trouble setting boundaries and constantly find people takes advantage! I look at the ex narc n I'm starting to see a sad and silly little fool that doesn't fool me anymore I'm not sure I'm strong enough to not be taken back in but this is down to the NC situation but I'm starting to think and see a bit more clearly today. If this is just the start of what I'm starting to feel towards him then I can't truly wait until I'm properly back on my feet again sorry for waffling I just needed to get that out there! Xxx