Narc started to call me names .

Hey Scoop, you and everyone who loves you knows that's not what you are....what a total loser, he doesn't even know he let a great woman go - they never realise this, just throw tantrums and call names - people around him won't congratulate him or think he's a big man for calling you that name.....especially after him speaking nicely of you, they're bound to thinks something's up with that, why change his tune so suddenly you know? Perhaps he was holding up a mirror as he said that.....:) He's pathetic, you're not - you win!!!!!!

He makes himself look bad by doing that!!! NO ONE likes to hear men talk about woman that way. It is disgusting. I'm so sorry hon!!

They are masters at getting other people to talk for them. these bastards can say more with a raised eyebrow or a grin, or a well placed physical gesture or silence.. They are freaks. Mine just went down to his family all of whom have been emailing and calling me for weeks to find out what went on in the final disaster. So he goes down to his mother this weekend who apparently never wants to speak to him again, I hear. Then they all gather for dinner, as usual and nothing is spoken about and my name doesn't even come up. I called him and asked him. "well what do you want them to say?" FUCK anything! How dysfunctional is this entire family!!! He will escape this unscathed who knows what he told his mother on the phone before he went down there. I sent an SMS to them all including him. saying " THANKS FOR THE INVITATION TO MY OWN FUNERAL" MONSTER HOUSE!!!! I swear I only discovered Narcisim 5 months ago and since then he has run through the entire repatoire of behaviors. EVERY SINGLE ONE HAS HAPPENED just as it was suggested here and in the book. when I'm finished with this waste of human flesh I will be a Narc expert and will write about it to help others.. They are extremely dangerous, Murderers actually get their hands dirty while these psychos kill by proxy, they glide like body snatchers in silence. FUCKING SCARY

Maybe he did it because he knew you will hear about it Scoop. Assumption here: he is looking for supply even negative supply. Just do not react, i think it is the best you can do. Ignore it like you have never heard it!

I'm very sorry he just won't go away!! Mine has called me that name too. They are sick minded and when things don't go as they want them, they turn into the children they are start name calling. You're doing all the right things. I understand your fear for safety and please be cautious and don't trust. My thoughts are with you. Happy

Hi Scoop. Am sitting here laughing because that's one of the names i called my ex a wank stain!! And any more, I know what you mean about your safety though am scared to go out as my ex N used to stalk me, Am from the UK, and the police are starting to get better here, I am having a safety check done on my home next week and they will probably offer me a panic button directly to the police station, Your Ex N is really showing his true colour's now he sounds like a little spoilt brat throwing his dummy out the pram as he cant get his own way!!! He is a big massive evil wank stain like my ex N!!! Lol xxxxx