Narc IMing my friend-INSANITY
Narc IMing my friend-INSANITY
Just thought I'd share the insanity with you all. My ex-narc (separated husband who is living in his OFFICE after I kicked him out for having an emotional affair) just IMed one of my best friends today with the following ridiculousness.
As a bit of a background FYI - the OW not only works with this friend of mine, but we were all a part of a very close-knit group of friends that the N and this OW are now ostracized from, for obvious reasons.
Names edited to protest the not-so innocent
Narc: why?
BFF: why what?
Narc: why did you pretend to care
BFF: Seriously Narc?
Narc: yes, seriously
BFF: I did care, before I realized what the hell was going on. The level of betrayal and hurt you caused is absolutely incomprehensible.
BFF: And the fact that you don't seem to understand it is mind-boggling.
Narc: you don't know
BFF: And I do care about you. But I want nothing to do with you.
Narc: what you're talking about
Narc: you seriously dont
Narc: what you guys are doing is awful
BFF: Okay.
BFF: Narc, I have to work. I don't have time for this. Please don't contact me again.
Narc: its wrong
Narc: i did everything i could to make things right, except agree never to talk to OW again. that was the requirement, and neither of us could fathom it. Being separated from BAW is excruciating, and same with OW and her husband. Both of us are still crying about it on a nightly basis. We didn't want any of this. And the fact that these people we love are punishing us like this, it's too much. I loved you guys.
Narc: that's it. i just had to say something
Amazingly ridiculous huh? But I do have awesome friends. :)Once again, my policy of NC is validated.
sorry but
IMing your friend
Just to set your minds at