Narc is on the down low - will he ever come up for air?

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#1 Sep 8 - 9PM
SoaperGirl
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Narc is on the down low - will he ever come up for air?

As a matter of curiosity, Since the break up nearly 7 months ago because he found OW hence new supply to establish parasitic lifestyle with.

He moved with in her in early May of this year. He has since been totally quiet and I haven't heard so much as a peep from him. (I don't really care about his living situation with OW anymore.) Nor am I longing, or pining away for him. Life is good for me!

Truth be told, I'm busy thinking about finding true love in my life, fixing up my home, and finding a good job eventually.

It's just he's been so quiet for so long, it's like he's completely dropped off the face of the earth. He always enjoyed being in the spotlight and presenting himself as a "good man".

Now, there's been nothing the past 7 months! He's been quieter than a tomb, and it doesn't seem like him at all! So, What gives?

I'm thinking (JMO) that he's busy conning this woman to get control of her checkbook and other funds to set himself up nicely come spring when he hooks another OW and will D&D her. Does this sound reasonable to you? I'm curious is all. What do you think?

Just wondering, not that really matters, I fully expect as Thomas Sheridan indicated, he's settling in for the upcoming winter while his OW feeds, clothes, and houses him, while he sources and grooms new supply for next spring.

I really hope Thomas Sheridan will explore the narc's seasonal activities further as I am intrigued by this subject.

So tell me what you think of this situation? He used to run a popular website for extra income. No doubt OW can set him nicely for future financial stability that she can offer him. Your take?

Sep 9 - 8AM
Layla
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It seriously never occurs to me to wonder what he is doing......

...until the divorce is final though I just want to be contacted in the event of his death so I can go and collect the insurance. He owes me AT LEAST that! Happy Friday everyone!! love~ Layla
Sep 9 - 1AM
Journey
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Love it Soaper! Glad you are

Love it Soaper! Glad you are feeling so much better. About your N, my first thought is he is in hiding partly because you outed him a few months back. Keeping a low profile now until people forget :) What I find fascinating though is the seasonal theory. My exN is SO controlled by the seasons when it comes to supply and the hunt. I'm going to go search for Thomas's info about that - want to hear what he says... xo

Journey on...

Sep 9 - 11AM (Reply to #3)
SoaperGirl
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Thomas Sheridan's Psychopathic Springtime-Our Tapeworm

I think you are right - he's likely paranoid these days after being outed. This is more a kind of musing on my part. Likely hoping people will forget his shenanigans over the past year. I think it's funny as Hell! hahaha. His primary cheater profile has received almost three million hits to date. He's one of the site's most popular cheaters. He's gonna be down a long, long time! However, the narc is simply a footnote in all this - I think Thomas Sheridan has hit upon something in his theory of the Psychopathic Springtime - Our Tapeworms jumping ship in springtime. I definitely want to hear more about that! I find it fascinating! Today, I'm working on further getting my apps prepared to get my house fixed up, updating my dating profiles, and doing some gardening, cleaning house and reading. I thought when I retired, I'd have more time to get things done, but now I find myself busier than ever! Go figure. lol. Much to do today. I guess I better get cracking!
Sep 9 - 1AM
Sunafterrain
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Soaper!!

How are YOU? Seems you are doing GRAND, but have this little cog/dis issue here. So let me see if I can help. If there is money involved, he's enjoying that. Yes, OW is allowing him to feast upon her. Gag! IS there anything to the seasonal stuff? I wonder about that too, if only for scientific study. He's quiet as a tomb as you say and you're wondering WHY? Good LORD woman! THANK GOD! SO much room for you to further explore yourself and your own life without douche bag around parasitically sucking you dry! You are so lucky!!! He's a douche bag, Soaper. Who cares what he's doing. You're far enough along now and have grown so much that I see this as simply a rock in the road in your recovery. With all the things you want to do with your life, is there any fear involved in doing them? I'm not assuming this is true of you, but sometimes when there is fear somewhere, we think more about the ex's. God Bless!