the narc and old sources
the narc and old sources
This is taken from Dr.Sam Vaknin,Malignant self love........The narcissist seeks out his old sources of narcisstic supply when he has absolutely no other NS sources at his disposal.Narcissists frantically try to recycle their old and wasted sources in such a situation.But the narcissist would not do even that had he not felt that he could still successfully extract a modicum of NS from the old source(even to attack the narc is to recognise his existence and to attend to him!!!)If you are an old source of NS,first,get over the excitement of seeing him again.It may be flattering,perhaps sexually arousing.Try to overcome these feelings.Then,simply ignore him.Don`t bother to respond in anyway to his offer to get together.If he talks to you keep quiet,don`t answer.If he calls you-listen politely and then say good-bye and hang up.Return his gifts unopened.Indifference is what the narc cannnot stand.It indicates a lack of attention and interest that constitutes the kernel of negative NS to be avoided
Here! Here! Madashell, you
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This is really good. Thanks
He hoovered, with a lame
@gratefuljen - GOOD for you!
Nan