Narc and loss

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#1 Jan 7 - 5PM
prettypeeved
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Narc and loss

Just thought this was such a good description that it was worth posting:

http://samvak.tripod.com/faq68.html

Jan 7 - 8PM
victimnomore
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Hello prettypeeved

This is interesting because I have been very sad for about 5 days. Just a real gut wrenching sadness that I cannot shake. I am 16 weeks no contact after 25 years of hell! I have been in the bed for 5 days only getting up to use the bathroom or check on my 14 year old son. My family does not understand. My mom is confused because she thought I was doing so well after 25 years of his BS. I don't know what to do to shake it so I am just feeling every bit of it. I have been crying all day every day for 5 days. My dad has been calling and talking to me and trying to encourage me but the sadness is sticking to me like glue. After reading this link I now know that it is one of the phases that I have to go through and I won't fight it. My NH gave my son a message to tell me about my car and an appointment that I had on thursday. (I guess the car service center called him because i have not been answering my phone). Then he left me a message that i did not listen to but deleted. i hope he is not attempting to hover, this scares me because for the first time in 25 years he has not been able to manipulate me to have any kind of contact with him and i want to keep it this way! Thanks for the link, at least now I know why i feel like this.

victimnomore