N dumps you and sets the bar low

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#1 Jul 10 - 2PM
robinroberg
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N dumps you and sets the bar low

I feel embarrassed to ask this question but I feel like the answer will help in my healing...So first off I feel like I'm a catch, I'm a great mom, smart, witty, loving, kind, have a great job, make good money, my kids are successful, I have a deep faith in god and practice what I believe. Superficially, Im a good cook, keep a tidy house, love sports but love to dress up, classy looking and keep myself clean, neat, healthy. Heres my question....He used to love all of that about me, he loved the way I looked and dressed. People commented on how we looked together my friends or outside world said I was the better looking of the two. (none of that matters to me who's better looking but I think it adds to my question) So towards the end he didn't like when I dressed up, he never complimented me anymore, he put down my car that he thought was a sexy car in the beginning. He now is with a women who is the complete oposite of me. She is short, short blondish hair, she has a 1 or 2 year old child so she is a little heavy from baby, bartender (great job to make ends meet but not career) I understand that she has no personality. I would think he would want to upgrade from me, or am I not the catch I think I am or is it easier for him to find someone who doesn't intimidate him. Why is he seeming to go backward? If he ended up with someone who had their stuff together I think it wouldn't be such a hit to my ego. Sorry if this is an annoying and stupid question but I take it really personaly.

Jul 10 - 10PM
fefe65
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They are right it has nothing

Jul 10 - 7PM
adrienne1125
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wondering same

Jul 10 - 4PM
what.a.mess
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In their mind they haven't set the bar low

Jul 10 - 2PM
Done sourcing
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As long as she idolizes him

Jul 10 - 3PM (Reply to #6)
robinroberg
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Thanks, I appreciate your

Jul 10 - 2PM
spinning
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robin, sweetheart, you have

spinning

Jul 10 - 2PM (Reply to #2)
robinroberg
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ok, I will keep reading past

Jul 10 - 10PM (Reply to #4)
Emotionalroller...
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Happy Birthday!!!! Enjoy the

Jul 10 - 6PM (Reply to #3)
cargis33
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Happy Birthday