my therapist scared me a little today
my therapist scared me a little today
My therapist started talking with me about the detox process and how I need to refocus now on healing and less on what he did to me and how I feel about him. She knows my focus and thoughts are still 100% on him every day/all day even though I'm NC. She mentioned that playing music and reading a lot will take my thoughts away from him. She also told me that watching TV can also contribute to my depression and to have it on less.
What really worried me is she said that this is an addiction and it's a long journey, but if I don't replace thoughts of him with other activities I could be infatuated with thinking about him always. That freaked me out. Do any of you feel like you're still thinking of your N the same even though you have been out for along period of time? Do you get to a place where you don't think of him? It scared me and I don't want to think of my N forever. This is not right when he doesn't give me a thought the day after break up. How sucky is that?
Keep yourself busy...
Thanks imabloke! It does
I am almost 8 months no
It gets better
Heres the thing with the
Good therapist
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You got a wake up call.
Thank you! I feel very