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#1 Nov 28 - 11AM
whskywmn5
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My Narc Moron

Once again even after I told the moron that I would have him charged for harrassing me if he bothered me again, somehow his damn email made it thru....i have this man deleted and blocked from my account so how the hell he makes it thru ill never know......HAHA Ive told the moron for months that we were thru, the day I left him I walked out and have no intentions of ever going back to that kind of relationship again...

Yet only now 5 months later does he finally decide to tell me that we are thru....he no longer loves me, has found the love of his life, will be spending christmas with her.....she told him to divorce me in june as soon as he can.....and they are suppose to get married in sept on her birthday......OMGGGG it that truly happens which I know it wont, will be the worst damn birthday present she will ever get in her life....but hey I warned her, so in my opinion I can go on with a clear conscience.....

I pray that this will be the end...but I really dont hold out much hope of that, I know him too well, and his fucking mindgames......he thinks I will be beside myself with jealousy and come flying back to be with him...WRONG MORON....aint going to happen in this lifetime or next.

You made your bed, you lie in it, and if you get up with fleas keep em to yourself!! I did not respond in any form to his email.....just came here and posted...he isnt worthy of my reply

Nov 29 - 1PM
sara-smile
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whskywmn

Good Lord! You're moron is as bad as my idiot! This is such bullshit! He's not happy, he has not found the love of his life and if he gets married it won't last. My Narc did this same crap and a month later he started calling, texting and emailing me begging to see me and continued that craziness until about 2 weeks ago when I finally told the OW. This is just more of the same from Narcs. It's all a game to them. He's thinking if he tells you this that you'll come crawling back to him because he's happy now. BS!!! They are so typical!!! You can read everything they do and the motives behind it!!!! You did an AWESOME JOB by not replying. That hurts them worse than cussing and screaming!!! Not replying means NO SUPPLY! Woo hooooooo! Hang in there and let him and her roll around in fleas while you live a happy life without all of the drama, lies and abuse! Hugs to you and GOOD JOB!!! Sara
Nov 28 - 4PM
Deidre40
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This made me laugh so

This made me laugh so hard...we are funny around here today. :=) You sound so strong...kudos! He's an absolute ass. Exactly right...he wants to make you jealous so you're running back. Their tactics are all alike. You continue the good fight. You're winning, btw. ;)
Nov 28 - 4PM (Reply to #11)
whskywmn5
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I do have my moments

Hey one of my favorite sayings is its better to laugh than cry....so im trying to find the brighter side of things today.
Nov 28 - 5PM (Reply to #12)
Deidre40
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and...you are succeeding.

and...you are succeeding. ;) There comes a time when it is possible to laugh at the whole thing. I mean, I don't laugh at the havoc that the jerk caused in my life, but I also let him cause it. Now, that's we have healed...we can look back and laugh at what was...and know, that it will never be again! God willing! :=)
Nov 28 - 5PM (Reply to #13)
whskywmn5
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Im far from healed, but im

Im far from healed, but im taking it a day at a time, every babystep leaves me farther away from the moron, and closer to the freedom of a brighter tomorrow
Nov 28 - 12PM
Hunter
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OMG!! You guys are killing me

OMG!! You guys are killing me today.. First " I hope you choke on a turkey bone" Now you come up with " keep your fleas to yourself" hahaha... You go girl.. Silence = Fuck You! Hunter
Nov 28 - 3PM (Reply to #9)
whskywmn5
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LOL Sorry

Im soooo sorry I dont want to be accused of killing you today, only because I had a witty moment.....lol yes it does and hes getting a huge silence from me....which is my way of saying Fuck You Moron, you fleabitten asswipe!
Nov 28 - 11AM
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wsky, silence is your

big and best F-YOU!! So glad he'll be someone else's problem. Keep blocking and keep moving toward happiness and light. You've done great. Most sincerely, (not) spinning. BECAUSE I'M NC FOREVER!

spinning

Nov 28 - 11AM (Reply to #2)
whskywmn5
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Thanks

Its nice to come here and actually hear someone say that I did a great job, I never heard that in all the years I gave that man, only all my faults or at least the ones he claimed I had, im not perfect but I certainly wasnt the woman he protrayed me to be. Im going to continue moving forward, I have too many other things going on right now in my life to concern myself with him anylonger....my own health could be at risk so im trying to get some health insurance before I break down and go to see a dr. So anything that they do find wont be already a preexisting condition
Nov 28 - 12PM (Reply to #3)
Done sourcing
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Story tellers, myth weavers,

Story tellers, myth weavers, with an innate ability to ignore truth in favor of fictionalizing reality. What a typical narc you were with. He found it necessary to tell you all about him and his plans and his happiness and his g/f etc etc. Who does this??? And why??? Perhaps it isn't his new life that brings him happiness at all. Maybe what makes him happiest is telling YOU that he is now happy without you. My exwn made such a point so many times to tell me how happy she was with the new b/f. Then a week or a month later would tell me how unhappy she was and how it wasn't gonna work out...back and forth...the same insanity I lived with being with her for so many years. Different word and situations, but the same bullshit script over and over again. What makes them happy will never make us happy. The disorder makes that impossible, no matter what else is done. I have shared here numerous times that the last 457 crappy things said to me were said by the same person, the exwn. I don't need or want that in my life anymore, and that is freedom. Great job not responding, that is the best gift we can give ourselves. I am back to email only with the exwn, and she sent me a "good one" yesterday while I was driving back from the holiday. When I read it last night it triggered anger in me, and I saw that as it's intention. I realized immediately that there was nothing worth responding to, and so I didn't respond. That is my growth, and my healing in action. I try to feed the new life today, not the old one. Let's leave the assclown's back at the circus and carpe diem! ds
Nov 28 - 3PM (Reply to #7)
whskywmn5
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Yes I couldnt agree more, it

Yes I couldnt agree more, it isnt that hes happy that isnt why he is sending me the email, its because he thinks this will bring me to tears, he loves the thought of being able to fuck with my mind, I watched him do it for years not only with me, but all his kids, and even now this woman that is suppose to be the love of his life, he tormented her for years in a chat room, giving her the silent treatment for several days, until he thought she has suffered enough and then he would reel her back in, and she kept coming back over and over. I advised her to read up on narcisstic personality disorder.....His weak attempts tend to make me only pity him.
Nov 28 - 12PM (Reply to #4)
Done sourcing
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and he does sound like a bone

and he does sound like a bone choking flea flicking ASSinator! ds
Nov 28 - 4PM (Reply to #6)
Hunter
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Bone smoking?? Oh... You

Bone smoking?? Oh... You meant choke on a bone.. Is there a difference??? A bone smoker with fleas??? Teehee Sounds about right!, Hunter
Nov 28 - 3PM (Reply to #5)
whskywmn5
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Thanks

Thank you so much, that made my laugh for the day!!!