MY HOLIDAY GIFT TO THE MEMBERS OF 'ALL ABOUT HIM'

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#1 Dec 23 - 4PM
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MY HOLIDAY GIFT TO THE MEMBERS OF 'ALL ABOUT HIM'

Many of us are alone this holiday season.

I want to make sure no one contacts their N or P for the "anti-gift that keeps on giving" (aka - being used and abused)

So tomorrow afternoon right through Christmas Day - I am going to open a free LIVE CHAT ROOM. Open to everyone from the boards - yes you in the UK and Canada TOO!

I'll be posting the URL and password(s) here tomorrow!

Virtual Cocoa, Gingerbread and Candy Canes will be served.

HO HO HO.

Barbara
http://one2one4victims.webs.com
http://abusesanctuary.blogspot.com

Dec 24 - 11PM
Barbara (not verified)
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chatroom url

http://www.chatzy.com/561330005305 password (all lower case): santa ~~~~~~~~~ The truth will set you free... but first it will piss you off - Gloria Steinem Visit My Abuse Website
Dec 24 - 11PM
no more
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url for chat room

Could you please post the url for the chat room. I can't find it. Also sorry I asked for this previoisly in the wrong place [new forum topics] Sorry just getting all this posting things figured out????????????

I just got involved with the same N for the second time.
What was I thinking? Because I have put myself back to the same point where I am blaming myself again. And for what?
I want to get rid of these feelings again.

Dec 24 - 9PM
grossot
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password

I can't get the password to work. http://hubpages.com/hub/Married-to-a-Narcissist?preview nolongercontrolled
Dec 24 - 10PM (Reply to #10)
Barbara (not verified)
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password

its santa (use only lower case letters) keep trying I will go check right now ~~~~~~~~~ The truth will set you free... but first it will piss you off - Gloria Steinem Visit My Abuse Website
Dec 24 - 11AM
Carolyn
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Good for you. You will

Good for you. You will have a good day free of one on one pain don't cause any 'in your thoughts' pain for yourselves. I just sent 4 people to join the postings. My minister's wife got served divorce papers for Christmas and never knew her husband had a double life. She thanked me and said the site is wonderful. The other two have problems in their work lives and with a narcissistic neighbor. They also felt the site saved their sanity. You are all valuable to strangers who read the posts but are shy. One of my neighbors told me all of you changed her life. she was married to two narcissists and at 62 she didn't know what happened to her until she saw the things you all had to say. Merry Christmas to you all and for New Year's I wish you peace, prosperity,freedom from pain, and that you turn the corner and find the life that is waiting for you.
Dec 24 - 3PM (Reply to #8)
cynthia (not verified)
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Merry Christmas to you wise Carolyn

My goal is to be totally free as you and Barbara of the experience and the aftermath of a pathological relationship. Although Barbara states she has permanent damage, she is still free and that is my goal for 2010 to be on the other side and start living my life free of emotional pain. If you did it, and Barbara did it, it can be done. Its not like we are trying to climb mt everest this can be achieved. I love reading your advise I feel soo good when I am done, Barbara pushes us back into reality saying, stop it, or no no no, dont go there, and that also makes me stronger, she deprograms us by continual reinforcement of how inhuman they are. They sugar coat their abuse with honey, and that is why we dont see sometimes how evil they are, I think of mine as the big bad wolf and little red ridinghood, and they will eat you in the end then spit you out. Have a great christmas!!!!!
Dec 23 - 11PM
4joys4
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Very nice of you. Thanks

Very nice of you. Thanks Barbara and happy holidays.
Dec 23 - 9PM
grossot
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yay!

Thank you Barbara! I'm so excited. I'm off work so I can actually participate in this one! Yippeee! http://hubpages.com/hub/Married-to-a-Narcissist?preview nolongercontrolled
Dec 23 - 5PM
destiny (not verified)
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Thanks Barbara- this post

Thanks Barbara- this post brought tears to my eyes..probably the best gift so far this Xmas. “It's not hard to find the truth. What is hard is not to run away from it once you have found it.”
Dec 24 - 3PM (Reply to #2)
Barbara (not verified)
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HOLIDAY CHAT ROOM Instructions

link: http://www.chatzy.com/561330005305 password: Santa then click JOIN CHAT there's a COMMANDS button on the left to tell you how to log out and do certain things. ENJOY!! ~~~~~~~~~ The truth will set you free... but first it will piss you off - Gloria Steinem Visit My Abuse Website
Dec 24 - 9PM (Reply to #3)
Lisa E. Scott
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Thank You & Happy Holidays!

Thank you for doing this Barbara. You are truly amazing. I hope you know that. I would also like to take this opportunity to wish everyone a happy holiday. I know I haven't posted in awhile, but please know there are specific reasons for that, which I hope you understand. If you ever need to reach me directly, please don't hesitate to e-mail me. I am truly blessed to have you all in my life. I hope you know how much you mean to me and how proud I am of you. We have created an on-line support group like no other. Thank you for your compassion, strength and courage. You inspire me every day. Big Hugs, Lisa
Dec 26 - 3PM (Reply to #4)
Barbara (not verified)
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free chat room - still open!

I'm going to leave it open for the weekend - a little decompression post-Christmas for all: http://www.chatzy.com/561330005305 password (all lower case): santa ~~~~~~~~~ The truth will set you free... but first it will piss you off - Gloria Steinem Visit My Abuse Website