My exN has shown up on a dating/message board site Im on....

We met on this site 8 years ago so I guess its not surprising hes on there, but he has been looking at my profile, (he cant see that Ive checked his) but said nothing. There is a block function, so Im surprised he hasnt blocked me as he cut me off completely a month or so ago.

He changed his phone numbers (not that I was ringing him, he said he did it because he was worried I would tell him I had slept with someone else).

Im gutted he's back on the site. I was cruising along nicely, having fun on the message boards (not the dating side of it), and now hes back!

Because I know its him, Im now checking his profile several times daily and I hate myself for it. I know I should probably delete my profile, but sheesh, he will just win again! Why should I leave?!

Is this some lame passive aggressive attempt at NS? Is he trying to get me to contact him? I think it possibly is.

I just wish he would f*ck off! This has put me back weeks!

What do I do you wise people out there?