my ex has now found God...whatever

Mirrior,Mirrior on the wall, is he God or the Devil after all? WOW! He's getting in her head to take her down! I'm surprised the church is still standing after he walked it! These Dudes are one big bad movie! Hunter

Actually, from what you said, it sounds like what he's "found" is OW. You are absolutely correct. Vengeance is the Lord's. I firmly believe that no matter what, in the end, we ALL have to stand up in front of our maker. We will be held accountable for our actions in this life. This includes the narc. I'll face mine. He'll face his. No matter what else I've done, at least I won't have to be accountable for the abusing, lying, hurt, and cheating that xnh had done to me. You are right, I find peace in knowing that God sees the truth about what they've put us through. It's too bad that we can't be present to watch the narc squirm while he's "called on the carpet" for his behavior though. It would be satisfying. Isn't it amazingly how many serial killers (along with other convicts, psychopaths, and narcs) also "find God" when they think it could possibly get them off death row, a chance at an early release from prison, or some other reprieve from the consequences of their actions? It's a MIRACLE!! They suddenly "find" God, and now we're all supposed to forget about everything they've done in the past. rofl. Even the Son Of Sam has apparently found God, and now wants people to call him the Son Of Hope. In my book, he can call himself whatever he wants. He's still the Son Of Sam, and he's in prison for killing people. The same goes with narcs. "Finding God" does not mean all is forgotten. It merely means that the narc is playing a new role to try making himself look good (and face that IS what narc's do). They're reprehensible self-promoters. They can role play and act all they want. In the end, I believe they'll have to face the reality of the truth, and I find comfort knowing it. :)

Are we dating or been with the same narc mines had found the lord as well. You know lol he reminds me of all those creepy looking tv preachers do you notice how they look like they're the biggest sinners or look weird or off. My N reminds me of them lol they probably were N's too before they found god lmao!!!

You mean he found himself? lol

ROTFL...really? We're talking about a narc...certainly he's playing the role so he can figure out how to make GOD his subordinate...cause after all, they believe the ARE GOD! Hugs!

amen sister!