More or less why I debunk the Co-dependency movement.
More or less why I debunk the Co-dependency movement.
http://www.religion-online.org/showarticle.asp?title=3007
I was going to write something, but I'd have to write an encyclopedia on this covering every flaw and I am not engaged in a dissertation *at least not at this time.
Again, this article I think very accurately explains why we need to be very aware and not look for the quick fix...not attach a label to ourselves and not re-victimize ourselves.
Understand or know whether we are *sick* co-dependent or just very altruistic as a result of society and re-conditioning.
The co-dependency model I believe can very well finding us in a sense going too far the other way...adapting in a sense narcissistic behaviors...
This woman is obviously engaged in a theological exploiration as well...you can easily however, substitute her "religious" jargon with whatever spiritual laws you follow.
The article in whole is I believe a very good "examination" it asks questions. Yes, she has a point of view BUT her questioning I believe will allow anyone to further investigate if their ideas on co-dependency are still accurate for them *this is a personal journey* or if they need to continue searching.
I am very skeptical of guru's...and I have witnessed the vast amount of people under the "guise" of help that essentially have their own ego's and personal self interests at heart.
The reason why I have stayed loyal to this board is because as a whole, I feel an openess, a support, and clear evidence of "NON-exploitation" that makes me very comfortable to be myself and heal...I've trolled many a support forum...hundreds maybe...and this is where I feel most at home.
Regardless of where you are, and what you believe...I do believe as we continue to search we all will find our truth.
Hugs...
So does this mean we don't
Michelle115
I need to clarify and can't edit...