Mixed signals before the end

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#1 Apr 15 - 9PM
Harper03
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Mixed signals before the end

I know I am posting a lot but it was a bad day and this has helped me so much already!

My exN told me he was obsessed with me and would talk about watching me sleep. I also heard how in love he was with me and how much he missed me when I wasn't around. Oh, not to mention talking about insurance polices for when we got married and having a child in the next year. This was weeks, days (as well as the day before) he called me up to end it. Anybody else experience something similar? Literally OVERNIGHT he changed and then all of a sudden we wanted different things and weren't right for each other. How confusing! I tried figuring this out for over 2 weeks!

Apr 16 - 3AM
Jar of hearts
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At the time it was like

Apr 16 - 12PM (Reply to #24)
Harper03
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You have every reason to feel

Apr 15 - 10PM
eyeswideopen35
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Yes I got missed signals in the end

Apr 15 - 10PM (Reply to #22)
Harper03
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I am so sorry that you had to

Apr 15 - 9PM
Deidre99
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I dated three narcs in my

Apr 15 - 9PM (Reply to #20)
Harper03
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Yes, you are right. I thought

Apr 15 - 9PM (Reply to #19)
kimberly4398
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Exactly Deidre we deny deny

Apr 15 - 9PM
sharlenemorgan
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yes

Apr 15 - 9PM (Reply to #17)
Harper03
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So true. I've had to pick up

Apr 15 - 9PM
kimberly4398
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Mine was talking about

Apr 15 - 9PM
bgirl
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Yes, yes and YES HE TORTURED

Apr 15 - 9PM (Reply to #13)
Harper03
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He discarded me himself. I

Apr 15 - 9PM (Reply to #14)
kimberly4398
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You questioned his behavior

Apr 15 - 9PM
kimberly4398
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Always mixed signals towards

Apr 15 - 9PM (Reply to #2)
Harper03
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What is their real reasoning

Apr 15 - 9PM (Reply to #3)
kimberly4398
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Yes it is, each time we leave

Apr 15 - 10PM (Reply to #4)
HappyGirl
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So true

Apr 15 - 10PM (Reply to #10)
Harper03
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Welcome! I am glad you were

Apr 15 - 10PM (Reply to #11)
kimberly4398
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It gets worse every time and

Apr 15 - 10PM (Reply to #5)
kimberly4398
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Yes they do have their hooks

Apr 15 - 10PM (Reply to #6)
HappyGirl
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Sometimes I get mad at myself!

Apr 15 - 10PM (Reply to #8)
Harper03
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I completely understand and

Apr 15 - 10PM (Reply to #9)
kimberly4398
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Yes they are and each time I

Apr 15 - 10PM (Reply to #7)
kimberly4398
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We do it because we want that