Messaged me for first time in 3 months about his pet dying WTF?

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#1 Aug 10 - 10AM
Puzzle
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Messaged me for first time in 3 months about his pet dying WTF?

Do they have a sixth sense? Mine messaged me after 3 months of no contact. not even saying hello to me when working together....nothing.

The morning i fly out to london, he sends me a text "chook chook (his pet chicken) died last night :("

Here's me rushing to the airport thinking WTF?

I think he just needed someone to tell who would care. He knows I am fond of animals and his pets...so I just wrote back "sorry to hear that."

He wrote back "Yeah she was my favourite, I even took her to the vet (wow you deserve a fucking medal). I'm going to get a new one tonight." (everything can be replaced if you are a narc)

End of texts, I didn't send one back....but after 3 months no "Hi how are you?" or "have a good trip." Just a text about his fucking pet chicken.

He showed more emotion about that than loosing me LOL

i love it how he thinks I actually care about his little world. My cat went missing, did i text him, no?? I wouldn't even text him to tell him one of my pets died....what a weirdo.

Am i being insensitive, or is it just a plain weird thing to do?

Aug 10 - 6PM
ifinallygotit
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not sure its a hoover

Maybe just being self-centered about his emotions and w anting support, not caring anything about your emotions or pain he caused you!
Aug 10 - 1PM
onwithmylife
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Not unusual

Saw my ex narc cry for the first time in 15 years when his dog died, i called him up after work and he was crying his eyes out like a toddler and said 'everything I love gets taken away from me" told my therapist those words and he said sounds like the guy never got any unconditional love from one or both parents.He did not cry when his brother and only sibling died.
Aug 10 - 3PM (Reply to #9)
Hunter
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I would love to be a fly on

I would love to be a fly on the wall when my narcs dog crokes!! It would be sweet revenge!! Hunter
Aug 10 - 11AM
Scoop
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Oh my , this is a hoover

Oh my , this is a hoover attempt , do not respond in any way . you havnt and thats good . You are absolutly right to think its weired , he hasnt even asked you how you where or a sorry for being a complete dick head . A bleeding chicken died , who was his favorite ? If it wasnt so serious it would be funny . They dont go away , it is us who leaves always .. keep strong xx
Aug 10 - 11AM
Hunter
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Told u, they never go

Told u, they never go away! He knew you were leaving and wanted to get in your head! It's not about a dead chicken! He said he would get another one anyway. He's dipping his toe in the water! Aren't you in Turkey?? I find this ironic! Its one big world of poultry for him! Hunter
Aug 11 - 8AM (Reply to #6)
spinning
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Oh Mighty Huntress,

I bow to your prowess!!! You predicted this a mere few days ago. It appears the Hoover Express is attempting to make a stop to stir up the puzzle. You have all the pieces now, Puzz. Don't reply any more. He's not worth it. They're always puzzling...but so predictable and ...ho hum...boring! Hugs to you. NC is the only way!! Most sincerely, (not) spinning. IT'S A FIGHT BUT I'M IN IT FOR THE LONG HAUL. THE SICK LYING FREAK OF AN ILLUSION TRIED REALLY HARD BUT HE COULDN'T TAKE ME DOWN.

spinning

Aug 10 - 11AM (Reply to #2)
Scoop
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Poultry seems to be a running

Poultry seems to be a running theam with narcs . For the old timers here we had the frozen chicken f**ker narc for a while aka CF . Ahhh a trip down memory lane . xx
Aug 10 - 2PM (Reply to #3)
Smitten Kitten (not verified)
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LOL!

Because deep down they're all such chicken shits with scrambled eggs for brains.
Aug 10 - 3PM (Reply to #4)
Hunter
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Smitten

Good one!!! Hunter
Aug 10 - 4PM (Reply to #5)
Smitten Kitten (not verified)
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Well, you two set it up so

Well, you two set it up so well and just borrowing your phrase!