Meeting him for dinner tonight
Meeting him for dinner tonight
Hi all,
I finally told my narc of 14 years to move out. I thought he was cerebral, now I'm thinking he's somatic. I have celebrities in my family so hence my handle, which means he is stuck like chewing gum to my shoe. Like you guys, I am in love with missing pretend guy who shows up whenever he needs to briefly. After he moved out last month (and he took everything we acquired and left me with the belongings i had when we met - including our wedding dishes, glasses, ring, etc.) he said he was setting up a separate house for "us" with just "our things" because my 98 year old mother lives with us (quiet sweet bedridden) and he feels it is not our home.
Anyway he twists everything and says he moved because I made him and he thought I didn't love him, but really he was being narc - silent treatment, rude, angry, the other guy that i don't know... (not missing pretend guy). So now he has 4 or 6 girlfriends, two by my house, one at his job location.
And I started crying. And he said he didn't realize I really loved him. And I said I love you not your behavior. And he said I'm the only one and let's try it again, without mom. But we will commute back and forth until I find a home for her.
And I have his email because I handle the business with him. And he gets emails from girls at night. And he tells me his phone went dead and wouldn't go on until morning.
And he is scrambling now because I called him on that, and he is trying to ascertain where I will be when, and trying to make a date today... So I am meeting him for dinner. To find out the truth, the lies. To go through his emails one by one. All this time I thought he was maybe stupid but now I see 14 years with a snake?
And yet, I keep thinking everything somehow is gonna work out. I wanna crawl back in the arms of my husband. BUt who is he really? Why can't I let go? What is wrong with me?
Celebrity
where did I read once
Nerverlookback nails it
Wonderful, poetic
The only person you need to
Celebrity I have not posted
That's an extremely
Omg looser free
trying thanks for saying
Just got rid of him
LOL, CLEARLY you have not read Lisa's book
I'm 21 weeks out so I am not
Loser Free
Thank you
If members are ferocious in
THANK YOU EVERYONE
Enough?
Change the scenario
He fucks other women, while
It's so true Deidre
It's an incredibly hard
I am in this marriage alone.
CelebrityNS
I'm not Janie
De Nile
OK
I was home by 11.
Are you seeing a professional?
Professional help is hard to find
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