Made it to 5 months NC today :-)

And I just want to say I read here every day and I see many, many posts about learning to recognize the red flags.

Recognizing the red flags is only half the battle.

The bigger battle is learning to love ourselves.

Once we do that, we won't be targets for the disordered!

We won't be attracting people who display red flag behavior!

I for one am not going to spend the rest of my life attracting and then trying to deflect these sickos.

Do the work. Join Goldie's support group. I can't tell you how much I'm learning and how much I've grown in the last several weeks.

Thanks so much Goldie!

LisaD