Made the First Step Today...(following up from guilt post)

This was the original post I made: http://www.lisaescott.com/forum/2012/10/19/do-narcs-feel-guilt

I know me, and I had to catch him red handed before I knew I could end it-don't know why, but I did. Today we hung out/date, and then he began to act strangely and basically told me to go home at 8:45 because he had a "stomach bug", told me his neck hurt in the corner when he stood up, said he had the chills, was dizzy, had a headache...you know when someone lies because they talk too much, etc..and i know this man. It was all a farce.

So I leave, all well knowing tonight is "my night" to catch him-I knew that soon after I left someone else would be pulling into my space in the garage. He calls me THREE TIMES in 20 mins after I left telling me just how sick he is (huge red flag!) and then texted me all this sweet stuff-right as I spotted the white truck I was looking for. Followed from a distance and guess what..she pulled right into his driveway into my space in the garage. I got a picture :)

I think she actually saw my car and panicked because about 2 mins later he calls me. I don't answer. I wait 15 mins and call back and he knew right then that I knew for sure. He told me his friend stopped by (mmk so your friend stops by and hides his truck in the garage-right) He then gives me this stupid story so long that I won't bother with the details. I basically told him to just shut up, stop lying and just deal with the truth for once. I basically let him have it, tell him I am done, I am disgusted with him, etc..I know he doesn't care bc he doesn't have empathy.

But I DID hit it where it hurts-I told him I would make sure the entire gym (that he owns) knows about his shenanigans. This girl that he is sleeping with is truly the town whore-and everyone knows it, so this will not look too favorable on him in our small town. Especially because I am a trainer at the gym and well liked-so this is going to get ugly. I am not a vindictive person really, so I am not sure what all I am going to do but I feel like doing something.

I have to get out of the gym-not sure what to tell my clients who have paid up, or where to go. He has screwed up a lot of people with this mess.

I am going NC and will use this forum to hold me accountable. I am broken hearted and feel destroyed. I know this road to recovery is going to be long and painful. :(

What sucks is that tomorrow morning, I am supposed to meet his mother at his house to go to a Spa Day. What the hell do I do about that????? Do I go and ignore him? Cancel? This is so messed up :(