Lots of great Insight & Advice!

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#1 Aug 15 - 11AM
Anonymous (not verified)
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Lots of great Insight & Advice!

I have started to realize that although we have empathy, a soul, and the NPD'd and P's do not, although it is a blessing, it can also be a curse when trying to escape from their clutches.

First and foremost you must recognize and acknowledge that the person you have loved or cared for is a hollow shell, void of any real emotions.

That is enough to make anyone want to bail; However, our emotions make us weak to their mind games.

I have chosen to deal with this situation by letting my mind override my emotions and it has helped me immensely.

This is a link to a website that has volumes of great insight on what everyone here is struggling with including how to get out & STAY out!

I hope it is of value to you:

http://datingapsychopath.com/the-psychopath/

xxx,
Ruby

Aug 15 - 3PM
twisted
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Ruby, thanks for this great

Ruby, thanks for this great link! It's really hitting a chord with me today as you can tell from my multiple responses :) Here's another one I pulled from the site to share, that I'm also reading with my mouth hanging open... http://datingapsychopath.com/2010/10/21/dating-a-psychopath-the-lovehate-relationship/ "When he was away, I melted for him but when he was in my presence…I was literally nauseated. I couldn’t stand to be away from him and I couldn’t stand to be with him, I was damned no matter what I did." - I mean, my god...
Aug 15 - 1PM
RubyWoo
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Great article, I'm still

Great article, I'm still struggling to understand all this and in so much pain... it was a good read, thanks!
Aug 15 - 12PM
Hunter
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Ruby

You are amazing, you have made leaps and bounds in your recovery! I'm soooo happy!! Hunter
Aug 15 - 12PM (Reply to #6)
ruby01 (not verified)
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Thank You!

I've got my eye's wide open now. The girl that writes these blogs blows me away! I wish I could write like her.
Aug 15 - 12PM
ruby01 (not verified)
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P.S.,

This one is my favorite! http://datingapsychopath.com/2011/04/30/dating-a-psychopath-getting-closure-from-a-psychopath/
Aug 15 - 1PM (Reply to #4)
twisted
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I also pulled this one from

I also pulled this one from that site, which I also think is great and hit me like a ton of bricks: http://datingapsychopath.com/2011/05/07/dating-a-psychopath-how-to-detach-from-a-psychopath/
Aug 15 - 1PM (Reply to #3)
twisted
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I can't believe after almost

I can't believe after almost 2 and a half years out of my relationship that article still pretty much kicked me in the gut. Just remembering the desperation I felt to try to know those answers...it almost still makes me physically sick. Back then, it did make me physcially sick. And that feeling lingers, I still want those answers, I deserve those answers, it makes me so angry that so much of my closure is trapped in his bubble. thanks for sharing
Aug 15 - 12PM (Reply to #2)
Layla
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I like this one too!!

This is an EXCELLENT article!!!! Thank you for sharing these- what a good find!!