Looking at my marriage now that narc is gone. PLEASE HELP
Looking at my marriage now that narc is gone. PLEASE HELP
Oh boy am I in bad shape. NOt only dealing with the shame of the affair, the brutal D&D combined with the narc being my first boyfriend, but now have to look at the possibility of leaving a nineteen year relationship with my husband with two little boys. I am in therapy and I talk about it a lot. I love my husband on paper, but he has so many issues I have never had a real sex life with him that has been passionate, always towing the line with anything important in our lives, dealing with his real lack of ambition, and tremendous general tension he carries around both emotionally and physically. I'm so drained, so tired, feel so used up. I don't want to go near him. Never really have. He's attractive but just can't open up that much. It will never be enough for me. OMG what the hell am I going to do.
I feel relieved I am not alone with this problem
my marriage
Candy
OMG Dudette
mine does the same
my husband's family
Jewish what?
Apologies for offending you PG
dudette
yours like mine
oh patience
Dudette Escape
honey you just might have to
You are going to get through
Playedwithfire
Pwith fire
Patience, I can relate to
Smitten