List of 40 Traits of a NARC: can you guys relate? Pls add your own...
List of 40 Traits of a NARC: can you guys relate? Pls add your own...
Hey all,
I’ve been good with NC: 40 days since HE emailed me and I didn’t reply. However, obsessive thinking is still here and I keep checking his online status... So I decided to compile a list of how creepy this guy was to remind me…
Can you guys relate? I’ve found 40 traits of his NPD personality (one for each day of NC). I’ll be adding to this as there’s more…Feel to free to add your own as well…
1- Never met his father and didn’t have a paternal figure to refer to
2- Has very few friends (one friend that I know of, his phone would never ring unless it was work, his mom/ relatives or collection agencies cause he never paid bills on time)
3- Very disorganized, his house was always messy, dirty, cluttered
4- Portrays himself as younger
5- Constantly puts you down: criticizes your appearance, your job, etc. And then tries to fix it by saying you’re perfect, beautiful, smart soon after
6- Has unreasonable expectations from people: no one is perfect
7- Only does what he wants: would pretend he was sick whenever he didn’t want to go out with my friends. And then would accuse me of “not taking care of him when he’s not well”
8- Wears clothing that are not appropriate for his age (41): for work he buys designer suits but for everyday-wear, he dresses up like a teenager
9- Tell girls he’s dating what to wear (try to do the same to him and you’re dead…)
10- Would cling on me like a kid with his mom and was super jealous when I tried to do any activity without him
11- Addicted to porn
12- Addicted to online games
13- Always chasing women online including foreign dating websites for mail-order brides
14- Has some “gay traits”: probably a bisexual
15- His idea of “perfection” is a woman who looks like a porn star
16- Always needs to be in control
17- Feels and acts “superior” but needs constant reassurance when it comes to his appearance/ looks
18- Takes pictures of women behind their backs, when they’re not looking: like pictures of his girlfriends trying on lingerie/ bikinis, or simply getting dressed
19- Used to stare at me while I was sleeping: not a “loving stare” but a weird look, the kind that looks like the person is in pain.
20- Slept naked
21- Brags about his job, how much money he makes: he’s always the best in everything
22- Always have to be superior: he’s always “winning awards”, etc…Winning!
23- Portrays himself online as younger and lists masters degrees he doesn’t have, or saying he speaks another language (he doesn’t). He even mentions his salary online
24- Sends one-line emails out of the blue, always about him (never asks how I’m doing, how’s my life, etc.)
25- Disappears and then comes back like nothing had happened
26- Confessed that he’s not able to love anyone: h e wants an Asian mail-order bride to “take care of him”
27- Seems uncomfortable around people in daily life but it’s extremely confident at work
28- Seems impatient and disinterested in group situations, especially when the conversation isn't about him, or about something that they know about. He simply leaves the group without any excuse.
29- Complains he gets bored easily and that all people are “boring”
30- Likes ultra-expensive items that he buys for himself only (not for me or other girlfriends that I know of)
31- Dislike kids
32- Never had a relationship that last more than 2 years
33- Never keeps a job for long
34- Complain that people are difficult and do not like him
35- Complain that women do not like him, even though he has “lots of money”
36- Complains of loneliness
37- Extremely worried about appearances and looks
38- Tries to attract women/ people by bragging
39- Seems to have a great memory, able to remember past situations in detail
40- Fluctuates between superior and inferior: criticizes his looks and expects adulation, affirmation in return
Mine was a "successful" psychopath
Sunafterrain I went cold
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Lol, I have a list saved in my files (I'm copying it for y'all)
LucyL, it's amazing how easy
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fun list, like it!
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