Lies and arrogance

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#1 Jan 25 - 6PM
Clear eyes
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Lies and arrogance

I just can't get over the number of lies he told, and his arrogance that I would believe them all. My God, some of them were downright ridiculous.Truth be told, I did believe them, until he gave me reason not to. Then I started suspecting everything, and I was usually right.I want to believe this wasn't because he thought I was stupid, rather he thought he was so much smarter than me. He is very intelligent, but I'm no idiot, either. His lies ranged from the mundane to the outrageous, and nothing was sacred. Why? Did he really think I believed him when he said he was drafted in the NFL? For the love of God, he's only 6-1.

Jan 26 - 7AM
Redhead
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Yes...

they lie when the truth would be better. He doesn't think you're stupid. He just thinks he's smarter than everyone
Jan 26 - 4AM
aceonelady
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About d***k size....

After 3 months daily online,suddenly he told me he was going to tell me something that maybe would make me not want him anymore...I said,well say it...He to;d me as being Afro american,and a tall guy,that women expect for him to have a BIG ONE...but his is a 6 incher....so if i wouldn't have enough on that,i could stop contaact with him...And i told him,i see sa whole person,a man is more than just a dick for me.Later,when we met we had sex 2 times and he just D&D ME,AFTER THAT...He started witholding afection,sex...Besides he couldn't keep it hard...anyways...just once for about 3 minutes...no matter what i did...he told me i was worst than a Porn Star...and that to fuck me he had to think about something else...He was a Porn Adict,since 9 years old...he watched Porn with is older Nephews....

Aceonelady

Jan 26 - 1AM
Tigerlily
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Love it, DS!

VERY funny! Rofl!
Jan 26 - 1AM
ifinallygotit
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can relate to the arrogance and haughtiness

I can see him posturing with hand on hip now, rolling eyes, deep sighs that things were not to his standards or reasonable questions were bugging him and beneath him or too dumb to bother addressing re:lies - he only lied about his feelings for me and also pretended we did not break up after he abandoned me with no discussion, actually very crazy! - the other lies were all lies of omission, meaning a quiet very sneaky Narc Not all that intelligent though so I could often figure things out (since he would never tell me the truth about himself) but ultimately got totally messed over Unfortunately, mine actually was a famous super star back in the day, but he never bragged about it, just lead a lifestyle of a spoiled pampered person who did not care about my needs - weird guy though because he would get up at 6am to help a buddy if their car broke down and did anything for his sisters - I was always last on his list... As far as your N and his NFL tales, the truth is that 6'1" is the perfect size for a football player if he is athletic and 200lbs or so...maybe he was a wanna be? these guys really are kinda crazy as they believe in their mask and fake life and panic when they may be revealed for who they really are - low down selfish little boys
Jan 25 - 10PM
ash5233
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mine could really

mine could really make up some stuff, some of which I don't know where in the world he could get it from. the best part (looking back now--not at the time) was when he'd completely contradict what he just said (likely because he forgot what lie he told to which woman) and i'd call him out on it. of course then i'd get ignored or made to believe that I was the confused one. what dumbasses.
Jan 25 - 8PM
saphire1
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mine was such a liar I dont

mine was such a liar I dont think he could even tell the difference!.I used to purposely ask him questions about his ow ( whom I knew about already) just to see what lies he would come up with, it was like natural for him to lie with ease
Jan 25 - 8PM
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Lies

I have caught the N in too many lies to remember! And going back 9 months ago I too thought he was so intelligent. But I have now realized that I gave him a lot more credit then he was due! He really isn't that smart...it was all part of the act! It is crazy to think of all it the truth that becomes more apparent as each day passes...
Jan 25 - 8PM
Journey
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Welcome to the forum Clear

Welcome to the forum Clear Eyes. Thing to remember about a narc - they lie for no reason, not because they think others are stupid or they are so smart - they just do it because they can so easily since they live by their own rules and agenda.

Journey on...

Jan 25 - 8PM
janemarie
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Mine said he made it thru the

Mine said he made it thru the first round of cuts to play for the minor baseball league....then blamed not making it through on his parents lack of interest.... Then I watched him play mens softball....he sucked...big time!!!! They live in a freakin dream world...kinda funny when you think about some of the far out things they have said...
Jan 25 - 7PM
Run4it
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Mine said ridiculous things

and the sad part is, I did not call him on it but allowed him to get away with it for fear of "hurting" his ego. How I wish I had now....
Jan 25 - 7PM
Hunter
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It's called

It's called brainwashing..once the fog lifts notice how we see things with " clear eyes" I think they believe their own lies.. Mine thinks he has a 12 inch dick.. He didn't !! In fact it was a tiny weenie.. :) Hunter
Jan 25 - 9PM (Reply to #8)
Done sourcing
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He probably measured from the

He probably measured from the anus, lol! ds
Jan 25 - 8PM (Reply to #5)
LearninToDanceI...
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No Way!

Mine believes he has a twelve inch dick too!! I'm not even lying. He is obsessed with his size too. Hahaha! What an idiot! And YES, they do believe their own lies, most of the time, from what I've observed.
Jan 25 - 8PM (Reply to #6)
saphire1
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oh man! why are they are all

oh man! why are they are all obsessed wth their size? mine used want me to compare him to everyone I was with before him! idiots!haha
Jan 25 - 8PM (Reply to #7)
LearninToDanceI...
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Bahahahahaha!!

Oh I'm sorry. It just makes me laugh. Mine never asked me to compare to my previous men. I would imagine because he's already convinced that he has been the largest by far. Haha!!!
Jan 25 - 8PM (Reply to #4)
fallingfoward
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lol

That made me laugh out loud, thanks Hunter, love your sense of humor
Jan 25 - 8PM (Reply to #2)
Pumpkin
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To Hunter

Thanks, I need that chuckle!

Pumpkin

Jan 26 - 3AM (Reply to #3)
Snowflake
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Cock size

Lol what is it about these men, I was actually private chatting to bgirl yesterday and said the same thing! He went on about his massive cock before we slept together and what a let down when the trousers came down.. Average at best. He kept going on and on about his massive cock, I used to reply you have a nice one..couldnt bring myself to say big cock. However last time he sent a pic message and I didnt get it, I asked him what he sent and he said a massive cock. I replied, oh whos is that then...