Letter to my unsupportive friends.
Letter to my unsupportive friends.
I'm just sharing this here not with them........
I will no longer explain what I have been through.
I will no longer defend the fact that I obsessed about researching narcissism, that I talked about it a lot, that I missed some work because I felt unsafe providing nursing care in my mind set. You know why? Because doing those things were necessary and HELPED ME. That is what I needed to do to help myself.
I have come a long way. I have been through a lot and I have survived. I may not be fully healed and I don’t know when I will be, but I do know it will happen.
You have not been exposed to a disturbed narcissist/abuser who mindfucked you, and if you are ever unfortunate enough to experience that, then come talk to me and we will compare coping strategies.
I am where I am. Which is leaps and bounds ahead of where I was 7 months ago. How about credit for that? I may experience weak moments and wear my heart on my sleeve, but I am strong.
I have always been a supportive and compassionate person that defends and advocates for my friends.
I will accept nothing less than that in return.
I have muffled my voice too many times in my life. No more. When someone does or says something to me that is hurtful or inappropriate towards me, I WILL SPEAK UP. I will no longer tolerate being judged or criticized by anyone that is not experienced with what I have dealt with.
I may not be at a point in recovery where you think I should be at, and you may not agree with how I coped.... but that is now ok with me.
If it is not ok with you, then you are welcome to leave my life.
I love you so much!
I saw a very good old friend
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vix
Agreed
Amy
Bluebeard
my sentiments exactly.
stayingstrong
stayingstrong78
almostlydia
The psychopath term is a problem
Honestly, if I could travel
Aliveagain
Freinds dont get it , i have
It's so true friends just
friends
Well said
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"The deeper that sadness carves into your being, the more joy you can contain." ~ Kahlil Gibran
"That which we do not confront in ourselves we meet as fate" ~ Carl Jung
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