This is a letter my ex typed me after a fight
This is a letter my ex typed me after a fight
Earlier you asked me, “What should we do to fix it?”
I recalled a conversation in which we discussed our desires to stop the cycles our parents set up for us. Furthermore, I believe you to be a great example of how one person can take charge of themselves and release themselves from their chains. I believe that my personal shit is at least partly where my bad behavior has been stemming from. It felt good talking about it the other day. I really think that letting go of the anger I have built up inside me will get rid of these ridiculous outbursts I keep having. It needs to come out.
I also think that us talking about all the little (and big) things that have happened between us need to come out and be discussed too. Me explaining it away, crying, getting angry, talking about myself and going on about my childhood and then us sweeping it under the carpet didn’t do anything for the problem, for us, and for you. Your side was never delved into and as a result resentment built up within you (totally understand). Me admitting that I was wrong for doing those things and properly apologizing and listening to you is something that needed to happen a long time ago. I don’t think its done but I believe it to be a good start. Of course, me staying on top of this Is just as important. I should not lose sight of the fact that its always important to put myself in your shoes.
hed always do stuff like this after a fight but it never changed. does this make him a normal person or is it manipulation?
My exN could have moments of
Journey on...
this kind of stuff was his
HE IS A NARC. NARCS ARE NOT
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Not a problem at all - I
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doesnt this kind of make him
Miss jade
I should not lose sight of the fact that its always important to
Ruby, that statement was a red flag for me too.
they just dont get it, theyre