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Let's all get off FB this week-end and heal instead!

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#1 Apr 1 - 9AM
dudette
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Let's all get off FB this week-end and heal instead!

This is a plea, from me
I have been reading messages every day about ladies peeking on FB and seeing things they do not wish to see and should not see....

I think we can all agree that FB ( useful as it may be) is also a tool for bullshit and pain / control /stalking by proxy

Please ladies, Enough of the FB cycle of pain!!!

NC means NO FACEBOOK!!!

I deleted my own account weeks ago and feel really much better. The benefits outweigh the inconvenience by far....I know who my friends are and how to contact them....

I lived without it perfectly well for 36 years....and I can do that again.

C'mon ladies, for 2 days only..... try it, it's liberating and it's cool.... in fact, it is the new coolest thing to do

Love to you all
Dudette
XXXX

Apr 1 - 4PM
ImStrong
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If we syop fb for two days we

If we syop fb for two days we should stop posting for a few days too..its the thing.sae thinking about them..same pain..stop talking about him whole..can we do that..

"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess

Apr 1 - 11AM
kgirl
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I agree! I unfriended

I agree! I unfriended mine....it was way too painful for me to see her move on with no problem. Every day for her is always great. She used it as a tool to get at me. All I can see now is her profile pic....and even that is a jab at me. It is a picture of her on a trip we took together a year ago, to my favorite destination in the world, which I once again funded for her and to this day she owes me about $1000 from it. I feel so much better not seeing her sham of a world on FB!
Apr 1 - 11AM (Reply to #4)
spinning
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kuaia, your N

is a real peice of work! I am sad that you had this experience, but I am happy that you are on your way to LOSING her influence in your life... ...What a piece of work! Good riddance! I can't wait for the day when this is behind you...behind all of us. When money is involved (and hindsight, because I'm sure you gave freely as did I) and then you realize what their true nature is, it really is hard to swallow. I send you a big hug. sincerely (determined to stop) spinning

spinning

Apr 1 - 9AM
momoya
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Not Tempted

It's a process. N has been Blocked since day one. I don't have any desire to peek anymore thankfully I am over it!!! :) my FB is primarily used for family connections, so I won't be deleting my account. But best to all of you committing to NC!!

momoya

Apr 1 - 9AM
safyre99
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YES!

I can't agree more Dudette! My exN is still my "friend" on FB but I eventually set it up to hide his posts and status updates, etc. since it was causing me too much pain to read the comments from his new gf on his page and see the photos of her that he posted. I would have anxiety every time I logged onto FB since I never knew what I would see from him on the Newsfeed. I know I should "unfriend" him but I don't want to do that yet, but by "hiding" his posts it's really helped and I don't feel the anxiety I used to feel. And, I've been very good about not going onto his page. Sometimes I'm tempted but I know it will only hurt me. Great suggestion Dudette!