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#1 Apr 12 - 12AM
I'sWideOpen
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Ladies Help Me

Two months ago plans were made to attend a concert with this A**H**l…… I really am finding I just can not go through with this plan and keep my dignity too………. I want to screammmmmmmmmm! I just did………… What I want help with is to construct an appropriate well worded letter to him enclosing the price of these very expensive tickets. He is a can’t remember the word I am so stressed by it all but amounts to an intellectual N. Verbal abuse continues via email………

Money is not an issue with me ………. I would gladly pay any price not to have to see him again and hope he has to scramble to fill this ticket I am prepared to send the dollars for.

Help me word a letter to him along with my check. If I am nothing else at all, I am at least a woman of my word. I want to send a message conveying this to him along with the cost of my ticket telling to him to fill it with a buddy or a new “sweetie” and enjoy. Apologizing for not being there to entertain the dinner hour before the concert, nights stay at a hotel, and breakfast the morning after…..

This needs done now ! I want to send letter out no later than tomorrow evening 4.12.2011.………

Apr 13 - 2AM
neverlookback
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no contact

I think there is much more at stake here than concert tickets. What he did to you far out weighs the price of a concert ticket. Cheap bastard, let him choke on his tickets. No letter sweetie, NOTHING, that is contact. On the other hand if you are a person who feels compelled to do what is right $$$ send a check in the mail with NO NOTE, NOTHING, just a cold check you could write in the memo area of the check, something like reimbursement, or if it were me I would be temped to write, GO F yourself but damn thats contact, ha ha
Apr 12 - 6PM
Hunter
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i's wide open

I think you are making an excuse to contact him. Do nothing! Why would you want repay him? Hasn't he hurt you enough? If he asks if you are going, You should reply with one word. NO You are not dealing with normal, Remember this. Idealk
Apr 12 - 6PM
Arwen
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Screw him! He should be

Screw him! He should be paying YOU for ever having been with him. Let him sue you yeah! I want to see that.
Apr 12 - 8AM
TLSM
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I am confused...

Did he buy the tickets and has them? Or did you buy them and you have them? If you have them, TAKE A FRIEND. If he has them and paid for them (that's what it sounds like because you want to send him a $/check), I don't understand why you feel you need to pay him back and why you need to send him an email explaining why you need to pay him for the tix? WHO CARES about that jerk. I am sorry I don't know your story. If I were you, I'd drop it. It's his problem. NC!
Apr 12 - 2AM
dudette
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Personally

I don't think you should. That is contact and all contact is damaging.....
Apr 12 - 12AM
I'sWideOpen
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I am going to bed

I hope by morning I have some reply's .... I want out of this event.........................