Labels aside....we are all victims.....
Labels aside....we are all victims.....
I think as a community of victims, it is really important that we see each other not for the role we played, but for the wonderful, loving, caring people we are that were taken advantage of by a selfish, self centered man/woman who is flawed with a personality disorder. I don't care if you were married to the N, gf to the N, OW to the N, married and had an affair with the N...doesn't matter to me. You are all victims as far as I am concerned.
If I could wrap each and every single one of you with a HUG, I would!!! Because you are all worthy and all deserving of so much more than what you went or are going through.
I admire each and every single one of you for taking the time to come to this board, whether you read or post...you are strong survivors and I learn from each one of you every day!!
A HUGE HUG!!
Sure we are victims, but to
Trulybroken
That wasn't the point....
Do you really think people
I think you give Ns too much
sure it's human, but not
I hear you Trulybroken
Ditto TRN1
No, I am not a victim, but
Trulybroken
You have been on here a long
Hugs back to you TNR1....and
You were not stupid....
TNR
Thank you TNR1
TNR
No longer a victim