Just want some viewpoints about this

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#1 Mar 28 - 6AM
anquilla
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Just want some viewpoints about this

This is my situation. I don't know where he is a narc but doesn't seem to one- maybe socially awkward though..I just don't understand.

There's a guy I'm very into. He knows I have feelings for him. We only have contact over text msgs. I'm very shy and I feel he might be too. He is an extremely good looking man and would have a myriad of options and women at his beck and call. I'm an average girl.

The thing is we keep in touch over msg only. No calls. We met up twice, first time it was awkward and second time was a lot of fu. This is the point. He RARELY gets in touch with me FIRST. 95% of times I am sending him the first text. However, he replies at lightning speed, pretty much all the time.

Does he like me at all? Why reply so quickly to someone you don't really like? Recently I was overseas, and he asked me to send him a postcard. When I got back, I was injured and I told him about it but he never ever even asked me how I was. I was really cut about that.

He seems like he has issues expressing emotions- or maybe I'm just not worth his time. I'm not sure. Anyone with any comments ? I'd appreciate it. Thanks!

Mar 29 - 12AM
Done sourcing
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He has problems that make

Mar 28 - 12PM
TruthbeginsToday
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I see some really great answers here and I'll reinforce them

Mar 28 - 3PM (Reply to #43)
Janie53
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Truth

Mar 28 - 1PM (Reply to #39)
spinning
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Love this, Truth, and it

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Mar 29 - 1AM (Reply to #42)
FreeMe (not verified)
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Spinning....

Mar 28 - 8PM (Reply to #41)
TruthbeginsToday
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Spinning...

Mar 28 - 8PM (Reply to #40)
Janie53
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Spinning

Mar 28 - 8AM
IncognitoBurrito
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To recap:

Mar 28 - 12PM (Reply to #37)
Tara30
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If he is a Narc or not

Mar 28 - 9AM (Reply to #35)
spinning
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Incog, have I told you

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Mar 28 - 3PM (Reply to #36)
Janie53
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IB

Mar 28 - 8AM (Reply to #28)
talktothehand
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Ugh

Mar 28 - 9AM (Reply to #33)
IncognitoBurrito
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Doesn't it

Mar 28 - 9AM (Reply to #34)
talktothehand
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yeah

Mar 28 - 8AM (Reply to #29)
anquilla
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Yeah. From others who have

Mar 28 - 8AM (Reply to #30)
IncognitoBurrito
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If you

Mar 28 - 9AM (Reply to #31)
anquilla
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I'm not even sure. Sometimes

Mar 28 - 10AM (Reply to #32)
talktothehand
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Anquilla

Mar 28 - 8AM
say.no.to.narci...
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If a man, (a real man) is

Mar 28 - 7AM
tootsgee
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mmmm I would give this one a

Mar 28 - 7AM (Reply to #25)
anquilla
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Yeah you are right. Everyone

Mar 28 - 6AM
onwithmylife
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anquilla

Mar 28 - 6AM (Reply to #2)
anquilla
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I agree. I don't mind just

Mar 28 - 8AM (Reply to #23)
onwithmylife
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anquilla

Mar 28 - 7AM (Reply to #3)
Froglegs
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By you contacting him first

Mar 28 - 7AM (Reply to #4)
anquilla
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hmm I see where you are

Mar 28 - 10AM (Reply to #19)
tootsgee
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Whats a v card?

Mar 28 - 10AM (Reply to #20)
talktothehand
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V card

Mar 28 - 10AM (Reply to #21)
IncognitoBurrito
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LOL

Mar 28 - 10AM (Reply to #22)
talktothehand
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I think I have