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Just looking for reassurance

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#1 Jan 10 - 12PM
Movingforwardnow
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Just looking for reassurance

He is a NARC, right?

He constantly belittled me for having my own feelings, thoughts,or opinions.

Twisted everything I have ever said to instill conflict but then would change it up as if I was imagining things.

He was weirdo about sex....but never cheated that I am aware of and it was the best sex I have ever had.

His OW were just friends..??..he seemed to have more female friends.

Gaslighting all the time!

Physical abuse.

Emotional abuse.

Financial abuse.

Character assassinations.

Liar.

Did I mention...character assassination.

Contolled me.

Manipulated me.

Character assassination....

Belittled me in private, in public and in front of children

Emotionally unavailable.

Flirted non-stop with others in front of me.

He had to be the boss......

He was always right and I was jsut plain "crazy"

Is he a NARC?

Jan 10 - 7PM
Hunter
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If he's not a narc he's still

If he's not a narc he's still a Big F'n asshole.. To the curb!! You are suffering from CD.. Love the Avatar.. In time you'll find those marbles again.. Hunter
Jan 10 - 7PM (Reply to #9)
Movingforwardnow
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Hunter

I switched that up based on last night.....I figure it will be fun to change it up based on my mood. I can't find anything about CD in here. I though I saw an article at one point and now I can't seem to find it again....and I want to read it, I figured that might be what's going on. I'd love it if you or someone can tell me where to find it. I looked everywhere today.... :/
Jan 10 - 6PM
janemarie
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mcastle

Go back....and reread your post.... If I had written this...what would you tell me??? You know the answer sweety!!!! xoxo
Jan 10 - 7PM (Reply to #7)
Movingforwardnow
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Janemarie

You are correct...and I'd tell you YES!!
Jan 10 - 7PM (Reply to #6)
Movingforwardnow
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Janemarie

You are correct...and I'd tell you YES!!
Jan 10 - 6PM
kungpowcat
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sounds like one to me.....and

sounds like one to me.....and even if he wasn't....that's all bullshit you were dealing with! You deserve better!!!!!! HUGS
Jan 10 - 5PM
Redhead
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He sounds just like the

He sounds just like the wonderful man I'm divorcing:) Exactly the same characteristics. When he officially discarded me in front ofthe counselor, he got up & stormed out of the office & left me sobbing. When I finally stopped crying, I looked at the counselor & asked "I married a pathological narcissist, didn't I?" She replied "Readhead, did you ever!" Trust yourself - you know.
Jan 10 - 5PM
onwithmylife
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I would

vote YES and even if he was not a narc, you deserve much better treatment than that and WE ALL DO!!!!
Jan 10 - 1PM
Sparrow
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Yes. He is

Yes. He is unfortunately. Never doubt yourself. Doubt holds up your recovery. We don't need a title for their actions, disordered or not, he is, excuse my french......a big prick. That alone my friend, should be enough to cut him loose and start your journey. But, yes, he is a narc, in every sense of the word. Stay strong!