It took 4 days, and 4 only....

Hilarious all of you! I posted about seeing Trotters on Sunday at the stables, where I completely ignored him, didn't even look at him, acknowedge his prescence in anyway and OW sat in the car?

WELL....you know what is coming....the hoover. 4 days later, I receive an email at my work address from his new work address. The whole email was dressed up as some kind of professional "networking" ruse....telling me that if my business helps his, there will be something in it for me! And topped and tailed with pleasantaries about how he "really hopes I am happy and settled" and to Take Care and ended with a kiss.

WTF ladies????? this is so text book I have laughed out loud. Clearly there will be no response from me. I can see how obvious this is, it's the classic "hey, remember me? I am still here? I am so important! My business is very important! My life is great and I am so successful"!

The last time he spoke to me he told me that he knew what he wanted in his life and it wasn't me, told all he could that I was pyschotic and unhinged. Well not so bad that he can't use me for a bit of business??? Not about that at all though is it...this is about HIM. AND HIS STUPID EGO. He has OW and is now bored with that as I expect she is now well and truly on the hook.

I never believed that he would do this. Not in a million years....but you know what? He has just proved to me what a classic, textbook Narcopath he really is.

Do one Trotters, stick your business up your arse, this is somebody you used to know and she don't play with you anymore.

I feel so angry though? How dare he reappear in my life unsolicited? HOW FUCKING DARE HE????? I love my life now, I don't WANT HIM. And boy, that feels so so good.

He will get absolutely no response from me, just now dreading what his next move will be. Because of the connection thru our businesses he can easily contact me via phone, from any number, anywhere. So then I will just put it down? Will he eventually go away and leave me alone?

Stupid arse, what planet do these men come from? Can he not remember how bad it was? I know the answers, just never thought I would be hoovered, and it is so not a compliment - I feel insulted.