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Is it possible that he made me feel i loved him when I really didnt?

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#1 Jul 2 - 9AM
Anonymous (not verified)
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Is it possible that he made me feel i loved him when I really didnt?

Is it possible that I am just obsessed and never in love, just because of the way he made me feel, he used to whisper in my ear, "tell me you love me, I know you feel it"

I met the N online, did it all right, he totally false advertised however, fatter than his pic and two inches shorter than me. I wasnt attracted to him at all in the beginning. In fact, I had conversations with my friends about going out with the cute one (another guy i was dating at the time) or the short one in the beginning.

On the third date he was buying me an ipod, after one month i was drinking wine overlooking niagara falls, one month and a week, eating at ruth chris and shooting guns at a shooting range in arkansas, one month and half in florida soaking up the sunshine, two months in california hiking along redondo beach, does anyone think I wanted to believe it so bad, that he manipulated me into loving him?? Is that possible?

Jul 3 - 7PM
Carolyn
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He knew what you liked and

He knew what you liked and you didn't that gave him power over you. It was just a slowly played game. Now that you are on the other side of it let it go. He played you. you have a much more interesting life on the other side of this. He was deceitful and you were not aware of what was happening-it is like a fraud only emotional instead of financial. In financial fraud no one who has been victimized ever realizes it is happening-it is the same with emotional fraud. To them it is a game.
Jul 2 - 12PM
Barbara (not verified)
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brainwashed

he used to whisper in my ear, "tell me you love me, I know you feel it" This is a hypnosis, NLP embedded command. Really sick. You can love - he CAN'T. period. start reading: http://howtospotadangerousman.blogspot.com/2008/01/am-i-under-his-spell.html http://howtospotadangerousman.blogspot.com/2008/01/am-i-under-his-spell-part-ii.html http://howtospotadangerousman.blogspot.com/2008/01/am-i-under-his-spell-part-iii.html ~~~~~~~~~~~~ Free articles & information for abuse victims: http://abusesanctuary.blogspot.com Effective Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals http://one2one4victims.webs.com/