The INCREDIBLE pain of having a Narc Mother
The INCREDIBLE pain of having a Narc Mother
Someone posted today about their narc mother and I shared the following and would like to add on to it with other people's posts. I just want to kill her. There is no pain worse than a parent being a narcissist and I lost my own father narc when i was 20 from a drug overdose and today I deal with a mother who is an awful narc. My mother and father were both prescription pain and sedative addicts my whole life and my mother never told me anything about being a woman or a girl, heck she never got out of bed. My mother is very beautiful but she never told me I was. She cut my beautiful curly long hair off at 4 years old to the length of a short boy's haircut because "it took her too long to comb through my rat's nest of hair". Isn't that nice? I am 44 and I am finally growing my hair without cutting it for the first time in my life. My life is so behind everyone else's. She never took me to a dentist. My father would beat us with belts across our legs and my mother would come to our bedrooms and drag me and my older brother out from under the bed by our hair so she could bring us in his room for him to take his belt out to beat us - for nothing. we did nothing. even if we had, you don't beat your kids.
I want to keep seeing how I treat my little sons and if anything keeps me NC from these narcs it's for the sake of my little boys who really just need their Mommy.
My mother has BPD and NPD
both my parents
Dudette you cut off contact
yes I did PG
Narc parents
You need therapy to deal with
That's not just narc, that's