I'm sorry your father is a psychopath, but it's not my fault.

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#1 May 7 - 12PM
ForeverFreedom
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I'm sorry your father is a psychopath, but it's not my fault.

My kid is getting older. I'm getting tired of carrying the weight of the psychopathic father. You know, the neglectful ex who uses child as bait to hurt me, manipulate his new wife, and generally use as a "I'm a great person" prop.

Not my fault.

I was duped. I sacrificed YEARS of my life protecting child. I considered SERIOUSLY aborting while I was pregnant, because I recognized something was very wrong -- but I wanted my child and I hoped against hope that 'it would work out'.

It did NOT work out. It was a misery, a tale worthy of a Lifetime Movie for Women Trilogy.

And the story still goes on.

I'm tired of it! Child is getting older. Child is going to have to deal. I can't cushion child and sacrifice myself.

This is a question of BOUNDARIES.
How you have dealt with this issue as a parent.
What lines you have drawn.

I made a choice to put my life on hold in MANY ways to cushion my child.
I did it.
Child comes home sick, exhausted (physically/emotionally), chronic lice, horrible oral hygiene. NO there is nothing I can do through the courts. Nothing.

May 7 - 5PM
Janie53
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FF

May 7 - 12PM
ForeverFreedom
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It's past expiration around here.