I'm finding myself very very pissed off tonight
I'm finding myself very very pissed off tonight
Would somebody please tell me they have felt anything similar to what I'm about to let loose on?
I am angry tonight. Angry to the point that my heart is pounding really hard and I thought I might feel better if I posted on here.
I allowed No Contact to be broken. And I got SLAMMED. Got fooled by his sweet talk and being nice inquiring how I was feeling, the hair on the back of my neck stood up (like a little kid who knows I shouldn't go there but reached for the candy anyway) and within 15 minutes his true agenda showed up. He is on a long distance mission to make sure I am aware that we broke up because of all "the decisions I made". He wants to be acknowledged as blameless. He didn't come out and say it that obviously but it was the old familiar twisting of the words, redirecting conversation back to his heat-seeking misile like questions. It was tangible... I knew what was happening and then it because an argument - me defending, him cutting me off, telling me I was full of shit, etc.
Please shoot me all the links you can about NO CONTACT. Especially if any of them are titled "You are an incredible IDIOT Sandy!!!" Why did I pick up the phone? Why why why?
Okay... so here's where I wonder if others have felt this. Although I don't want to sink to his level.... I am so angry at this asshole, loser, creep... that I am feeling more vengeful now than I ever have. Thinking how I can do him harm, ruin his stupid pseudo entertainment career, make sure everybody knows what a lying, self-absorbed, parasitic creep he is. I won't do it... I don't even believe in revenge... but I have to do something with this anger right now that doesn't have an outcome of actual harm to something or somebody. I think I am joining a yoga class tomorrow and then I am never ever speaking to him or acknowledging him again.
I HATE HIM! I hate that I loved him, that he fooled me, that he took advantage of me, that he made my son such a pawn in this situation, that he freely spent my money and demanded my support and said horrible things to me all the time and never ever apologized for any of it. I hate him for having so much mess to clean up emotionally. I realized yesterday that if I happen to not get enough sleep and feel tired.... I end up feeling traumatized all over again because now I actually relate feeling tired to having been kept up all night being yelled at by him. It might just be I stayed up too late talking to a friend on the phone, but the tired feeling brings back every sleepless night I spent with him. So I try to avoid not getting enough sleep by taking Nyquil tablets to make sure I go to bed. That is NUTS!!! That doesn't even make any sense!
I don't think i would even feel bad if I heard he dropped dead. And that is horrible! Very very horrible! I hate that I STILL feel that there must be something wrong with me for him to do this. I know there's not... but I feel that there is. Make sense? I am being obsessive thinking about this. I was doing kind of okay... sad, hurt, keeping to myself a LOT - kind of isolating myself. But I haven't felt this mad in awhile. He might as well be standing in the room doing his thing cause it feels just the same as if he were.
Okay... I'm so sorry for sounding like such a royal pain in the ass with a bad attitude. But I had to do something with all of this.
Thanks All!
Sandy
And please don't keep in touch.
me too, And NO contact?
Leah
Leah
yes, yes Tina
Leah
Thank You quietude.
return of the pig
Barbara
Leah!
I think I am feeling some of all that tonight
Mar1e101
finallydone
finallydone
anger
finallydone
thank yo