im back I think- but reality is a tough pill to swallow
im back I think- but reality is a tough pill to swallow
Im going to give this board another try... i think I need some serious support.
I feel like I need to run- yet cant seem to let the N go...
tonite- he revealed what I believe to be his inner thinking..( my head is still spinning) .
he claims he is not obsessed with me any longer... that is why he no longer misses me (wth)
- he has a lot of internal conflict about many things
- he isnt obsessed with anything right now and that is very good for him... healthier.
the kicker is he told me I need to find my prince-(this was in response to me saying if I didnt miss him all would be ok) (as if to say time to move on) yet moments before he appeared sad that I said i was done.
I dont know what to make of this... if it is some sort of game... or if he is really seriously just too disordered.
he also said he can become obsessed again at any moment and will need me to redirect him again.
I'm still going thru some health stuff... and tonite he helped me with somethings... but I overdid it.. and now I have the emotional stuff added to it.
he said that he has failed me and feels like a failure all he wanted to do was make me happy ( i dont know what to believe)
how can someone go from being obsessed to not...that does not make much sense to me.
he will be out of town for awhile... last time he went out of town I got many calls... doubtful that will happen this time though as his focus is no longer on me.
I guess part of me is still searching for answers...maybe even trying to fix him....
I think I need to just not talk to him for awhile again..or not at all ever... I'm just so mad at myself for falling for it again...i guess part of me just wants things to be the way they were before(and he really dislikes me saying this as he feels that means I want him to go back to being sick and obsessing)
I dont know if all of this can be acting....he seemed really sincere and upset...and he kept saying all he wants is to be good for me... to make a difference in my life. but yet why do I feel so anxious. it just sucks.
Im just not sure what to make of tonite at all.... in some ways things with us are more normal... or the way they should have been all along.
I feel like I am just at a complete loss...with everything... I have read about N's he doesnt quite sound like one...and he seems more normal now... for instance... we dont get into long email fights...or anything like that...it is as if he just does not care...
anyone have any thoughts- I have blocked his home number on my phone... it is a step I guess.
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i feel that too it is me vs
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thank you everyone- I didnt
welcome back
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