If you are the OW
If you are the OW
Anyone can fall victim of a psychopath . Once he targets a woman there is not much you can do about it (unless you know the red flags which we now know so it wouldnt happen again ) . The narc will taylor make his persona to be youre perfect man , he will love bomb you into submission . Its really important to remember that psychopaths can fool psychiatrists so you can see we , armed with no knowledge of personality disorers where lambs to the slaughter .
Everyone feels guilt for being nieve when we go NC , it is a stage of early recovory . That guilt is made worse if you where the OW and youre narc was already married ..It would seem memebers who where the OW have more than their fair share of guilt and shame and this just needs to STOP RIGHT NOW .!.
If you have something the narc wants he will take it , end of story. The narc dosnt care anything for anyone , he could be married or single , if he truns his rays onto you he wont stop untill be gets all he can out of you .
There is no shame in being a victim .. None ... the shame lies firmly at the psychopaths door , no if and no buts , it is an absolute .
http://livingmalachi33.blogspot.com/2010/03/narcissist.html
Scoop xx
Meeting the OW
OW..
My Husband's OW harassed me as well, made My Life Hell
Thank you Scoop
The Truth
Judgement
The OW
mine was married
I struggle with the thought too..........
Reply to OW
I think the key word here is
Scoop
Understood, that's how I am
Soaper
Partner in crime..........
The shame lies firmly at the psychopaths door - not yours!
"crossroads" be careful
Messed Up
Thanks Scoop....
TNR1
The OW
This thought helps me stay free...
Finallyfree2bme
Thanks!
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