If they were just to come clean, wouldn't that make healing so much easier?
If they were just to come clean, wouldn't that make healing so much easier?
Problem with the N relationship, and cycles of their inflicted abuse, hiding, lies, gaslighting, brainwashing, depriving us of peace, and sanity, is that after all is said and done, they don't ever come clean.
Most relationships, when people 'break up' or 'move on' there is some tiny bit of understanding between the two.
A 'connection' I dare say.
Yet,,with the N,,there is NO connection. It just isn't there!!! There is NO form of common sense, no foundation to work from, no solid ground to discuss.
It is all heresay, and there is no meeting in the middle, or apologizing for anything.
Not only does this make it hurtful, but it continues to quake within us.
It would be as if that last straw, the coming clean, would help us move on.
They deny us this very little consideration, again, another tactic to manipulate.
Does anyone feel the same?
Yes! You would expect when
narcs 'coming clean'?
Ladies, Ladies.....come,
NHTMF!!!!
Hi Whatever, yup glad to
Meeting in the Middle
I went ot family therapy
Marriage & Family Counseling NEVER WORK WITH AN ABUSER!
I wasted 4 years on and off
I think this is about not
We Are Just Video Games To Them - Awesome Idea!!
Yes, that is an awesome analogy.
Toys.....you are right, baddream.....
There's no help from them
Ending the dance
they dont
They want you, but they dont.....
Cynthia...you are so right.....
They never want to totally lose us
What they do to us
Baddream,,comment about the 'hovering'
cynthia
I know
cynthia
Amazed
this just scares me so
The Wall is Near
thewallisnear
Thank you, Barbara
It will never happen.
Sure it would.