IF I was granted one last sentence to say to the NARC in PERSON, here is what it would be

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#1 Jun 21 - 10AM
onwithmylife
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IF I was granted one last sentence to say to the NARC in PERSON, here is what it would be

What went wrong between you and your mother, as a young toddler growing up, caused you to be so hateful and fearful of women? What would yours be, remember it is one sentence!

Jun 24 - 8AM
Susan32
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I'd laugh at him...

And I'd use the SAME voice on him that I use on my baby nephew. I'd use that high-pitched, cooing voice. I'd ask in the most patronizing, condescending tone possible- "How's life with Mommy and Daddy?" "Does your Daddy smile as you go down the slide?" "Are there cute movies of you of your Mommy feeding you cottage cheese?" You have to know your audience! I'm talking about a guy who's pushing 50 who has the mentality of a toddler! So I'd treat him like a toddler! Then I'd act as if he weren't supposed to take it personally.
Jun 24 - 5AM
dolphingirl
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what I did say

I would say what I did say Do not call me, email me, please do not contact me in anyway I found out about you and I want nothing to do with you
Jun 24 - 4AM
Littleone
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Wait wait I have another

Wait wait I have another one- Hahaha FAIL!! And then walk off :)
Jun 23 - 4AM
fooled no longer
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I wouldsay "Im still amazed

I wouldsay "Im still amazed at myself, that with my intellect I could have spend so many years with someone so dumb. I would shake my head in wonder, and then say, but Im sure youll find someone who would match you perfectly.
Jun 22 - 8PM
insectt (not verified)
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I wouldn't want to say

I wouldn't want to say anything. he has hurt me so bad and doesn't care. Nothing I would say would matter anyway. I just want to heal.
Jun 22 - 7PM
Allie
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Oh wow...

I have had many years to think about this, and what I would say that would have the most effect I think...would not be "I never loved you" or "I hate you" or "you hurt me" or "did you ever once love me?"...though those questions have all gone through my head. If I only had one thing that I could say to him it would be the truth and the sentence I know would bother him the most, "You never once in all the times we ever had sex, gave me an orgasm." That's it, that's all I'd have to say. It would hurt him worse than telling him I didn't love him, that's how shallow a Narc is.
Jun 22 - 5PM
Susan32
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"You're bored this way"

Since I am an out of the closet Lady GaGa fan, I'd sing that (he hated it if I sang) Or *YAWN* I'd take one look at him... and nod off. Not even a kicky coffee from Ritual or Blue Bottle (showing off my Bay Area vibe) would do the trick.
Jun 22 - 1PM
Jelickuk
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I WOULD SAY

Now I really see you
Jun 22 - 3AM
Littleone
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Listen up you dumbfuck and

Listen up you dumbfuck and listen good. You are hopeless ugly loser, good fucking luck. Btw I don't know how you actually expect to satisfy a woman you one minute wonder. I faked it EVERYTIME!! Sucked in for being a baldie at 27, you look like an egghead!!
Jun 22 - 12AM
HesAnOldWashedU...
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I Would Say

Eat Shit And Die, Ya Old Washed Up Loser. Laugh In His Face, Fix Me Tits, Check Me Liptick In The Mirror And Push Im Aside Walking Away Only To Tell Him, "My Fans Await Me", Limp Dick Wanker..He He. I May Possibly Vomit On Him In Pure Disgust.
Jun 22 - 12AM (Reply to #27)
adoette
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HesAnOldWashed

lol, HAO. This might be my favorite one yet.
Jun 22 - 12AM
Arwen
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"You violated my home, my

"You violated my home, my family,my values and my heart and then you disappeared and for that I will neither forgive you or forget as long as I live".
Jun 21 - 11PM
Kitty02 (not verified)
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One sentence

To Narc/psycho #1 and #2 I would say: (with a calm persona and sweet smile) "You took my kindness for weakness and my friendship for granted and I want nothing else to do with you". Isn't it eye opening that one sentence fits all....lol Realistically though the best thing you can say to a Narc/psycho is nothing....silence is much louder and potent then any sentence. Been NC long time will be staying NC forever :-))
Jun 21 - 8PM
Sparrow
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To my ex husband I said in

To my ex husband I said in response to his 2nd attempt to an apology "never say your sorry again, you said it once already, anything after that benefits you, not me" To my narc ex boyfriend I said so many last things so many times it's almost ridiculous. Wait, no, not almost......it IS ridiculous! Lol
Jun 21 - 7PM
Smitten Kitten (not verified)
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I had a lot of "last"

I had a lot of "last" sentences I said, or so I thought at the time: "I would tell you to have a nice life, but I'd be lying at this point. I hope you rot in Hell!" "I hate you!" "Fuck off! Fuck off and die!" "Fuck off you sadistic fuck and leave me the fuck alone!" "There's a special place in Hell for people like you!" "You're a God-fearing man and you'd better pray for your soul, because one day you will pay for the things you've done to me and other women." "This will be the last you ever hear from me. You're dead to me now." "You're going down." My last sentence now is silence in every form. If/when I ever run into him somewhere, my goal is to do the same, just completely ignore him. I hope I can do it because I have a tendency to speak my mind and blurt out what I feel, so the odds of me telling him to fuck off and that I hate him are pretty high.
Jun 21 - 6PM
Hunter
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A sentence is too long! FUCK

A sentence is too long! FUCK YOU! enough said !
Jun 21 - 2PM
adoette
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Your loss

I, too, would not speak a word. I'd look at him with pity, shake my head and think, "Your loss, m'fer." (PS As you can see, I'm still not to the indifferent stage yet.)
Jun 21 - 5PM (Reply to #19)
onwithmylife
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adoette

I once said to him, it is your loss, when he broke up, one of the many times ,and he said,' your right.''i kinda like just shaking my head in pity, good!
Jun 21 - 8PM (Reply to #20)
adoette
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onwithmylife

that's why i would never say it, owml. just think it. whatever i would say he would twist and it would be so unsatisfying. right now i'm all about satisfying myself. (smile)
Jun 21 - 2PM
Goldie
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OWML

"You are the DEVIL; I am one of God's children, so fuck off, God will not ALLOW the like's of you to take me down!!! That is what I said, lol!!! God bless, Goldie
Jun 21 - 1PM
mystwoman
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I'd use a quote from that old

I'd use a quote from that old movie about the Jamaican bobsledding team, "Cool Runnings": "Whatever is the matter with you is no little thing."

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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.

Jun 21 - 1PM
SoaperGirl
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Love your responses - here's what I would say though

Go do the world a favor and go kill yourself Asshole. Die, Die, Die!
Jun 21 - 12PM
michele115 (not verified)
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My Last Sentence?

I have nothing to say really - but perhaps if cornered would excuse myself and explain I have to go watch paint dry...
Jun 21 - 11AM
spinning
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I wouldn't

waste my breath. Turn the silent treatment tables right back on him. Turn my head and walk on by. I do this every day philosopically. Peace and love and clarity to all who stop here from, (not) spinning. NO LONGER AN OPTION.

spinning

Jun 21 - 11AM (Reply to #13)
wacaet
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Nothing at all. Nothing would

Nothing at all. Nothing would get through to him more than any words I could say
Jun 21 - 11AM
Used
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HAVE YOU RUN OUT OF SUPPLY

HAVE YOU RUN OUT OF SUPPLY AGAIN.?
Jun 21 - 11AM
Lobo555
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I'd just laugh and shake my head

That would drive CharlieSheenWinning crazier than words would. :)
Jun 21 - 11AM
Caligirl
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I would say...

"You tried to break me down, steal my soul, my hope, my joy, and my love for life, and you failed." I'd want to ask about his relationship with his mother as a toddler too, but only one statement. :)
Jun 21 - 11AM
ShaynasMommy
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The last words...

mine would be, "Gee, it must be damn near impossible to get new tail being married, unemployed, and bigger than Brazil, you fat ass!"
Jun 21 - 11AM (Reply to #2)
sara-smile
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ShaynasMommy

LMAO! Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaa! That is hilarious!! Good one!