I THINK I AM HAVING A BREAKDOWN
I THINK I AM HAVING A BREAKDOWN
Like you Patience I feel like I am dying, and like you Jaycee I want to shut my drapes and never get out of bed. I think the re-contact has caught up with me it did more damage than what I thought, I too easily dismissed it and that was a mistake.
So what I need at this time is for you to HELP ME ACCEPT what he is and what I never will change. I give good advise and I try so hard to make others understand, I read article written by psychologists who have spent a life time studying this disorder and the negative thoughts run thru my mind daily, what did she have that I didnt have, (cant believe I said that) I know he will ALWAYS be there for me if I want to play his game and participate in his perverted side life and I think what was so horrible about me that he could have put me in this role to begin with. This is all I meant to him, if I want to leave I can leave makes no difference to him, if I want to stay he will give me more of the same sick games, maybe if I am lucky he will throw me a bone and see me three times a year, PROVIDING of course his GF is not around. THAT GF YOU KNOW TAKES TOP PRIORITY TO HIS WHORES, and I KNOW I am not a whore but this is how he left me feeling, because this is all he ever offered me in the end.
Today our neighbors puppy squeezed thru the fence, tiny little thing and I picked it up and started crying because I felt JOY holding that puppy, that puppy really touched my heart so I know I still have a heart in there somewhere that can love, maybe not people but animals, guess its a start. I dont want to live like this anymore, I am so very tired and weary of trying to be strong - life is a treasure and here I am wasting my precious life over a person that was truly evil and disturbed, feeling like I dont deserve to be loved.
I think what set this off was an prior article I posted
"needless to say, any man who expects you to violate your self-respect and values for him doesn’t really love you and never will."
IT HURT to read that but that is my truth I feel I was not worth being loved because this man could not love me, and I KNOW that is just ridiculous to even harbor such thoughts but it seemed to be the one thing I was saying over and over and over today hysterically sobbing.
NOT a good day and some how I have to get through work with a smile on my face when I feel like crawling in a hole and never coming out.
I WANT TO THANK EVERYONE
NLB
nlb
Listen to me NLB. As I cried
Note to NLB
NLB
NLB- I was ready your posting
Believe in yourself!
Terri
Exactly
Marriage as a power play
You are not dying
me too
nlb i feel so bad, i dont want you to feel this way
Jaycee
Gooooo Jaycee!!! Been waiting
NLB
Nlb I must say that article
Wow, GB, yet another great
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Nlb I must say that article
Nlb I must say that article
don't give in five minutes
hi please dont give up......i
WE can't hide away -forever
momoya
momoya
Neverlookback
victimnomore
NLB, these disordered ones and
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