I really really really really want to stop doing this
I really really really really want to stop doing this
I NEED to stop doing this...I HATE that I do this. Its been 6 months since I broke it off with my ex and I am still constantly thinking of the world through his eyes. Specifically in terms of other girls or what he would find attractive. For example:
"(my ex) would think that girl was so pretty..."
"I wonder which girl (my ex) would rather sleep with..."
"(my ex) would love that girl's hair..."
"(my ex) would totally want to sleep with that girl..."
"that girl is totally his type..."
"(my ex) would probably think she has the perfect body..."
Im sooo sick of doing this and its become such an automatic response, which shows me how intensely important his opinion is to me, and how intensely self conscious I felt with him. He would tell me that I was the prettiest girl he'd ever seen, that I had the nicest body, that I was the hottest girl he'd ever been with, that I had the nicest hair...blah blah. But obviously in other subtle ways my self esteem was being eroded and I want it back!
But I dont know if it was even really there to begin with. But I know I have never been so focused in on or tuned into what a guy would like/dislike. Its driving me INSANE and I just want to stop thinking of everything through his "lens".
Help!!! :( Does anyone else do this? I seriously feel like a crazy obsessed woman and its making me feel really anxious and bitter. :((((((
I do exactly the same thing.
Thank you so much guys, again
Sunnyside
Run4it you are so sweet,
I remember
I raise my two hands for Ruby answer!!!
Really interesting winter, I
You said all with the words
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Thank you, SunnySide and Midnight
you can no longer be his
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