I need you please! LONG
I need you please! LONG
ok so those who know me know that i have been spending time with friends and one particular guy right? well i went out with some friends from work last night and we all started talking about just everything then the subject came up of who likes who and so on
well so the guy friend of the guy i have been spending some time with tells everyone that he is a really sweet guy but he is a player, but a nice player he said the guy i am spending time with has many many girls he is spending time with and that its just him the way he is he doesnt want one girl
he said the guy i am hanging out with will be super sweet and good to me because he is a sweet guy but for me to be careful and not to get attached because i will get hurt
he told me alot of negative stuff about this person
all the while saying "he is my best friend"
i dont know what to make of this
now i feel all weird and uncomfortable talking to or spending time with the guy i was hanging out with
keep in mind we have done things as a group mostly
also just to throw this in there
i hadnt heard from the guy i have been spending time with all night night before last, i didnt text him either
then he called me and get this tells me he was working so late ( he works swings) came home did all his homework passed out went to bed got up for school and is now calling me..during the phone convo he not only told me what he did the other night i didnt hear from him
but what he had been doing and where he is going (work when he called me) then he said i have to work late on friday and saturday too i volunteered extra hours so i wont be able to see you and hang out till sunday
here was my feelings on this per bad men in my life friend or other
why not just call and say "hey what are you doing sunday?"
instead he gave me all the details i didnt ask for nor implied about...
is he building trust with me?
does he want me to know what he is doing because he wants me to know he isnt spending time with others?"
i mean for me it was nice to have someone just start telling me detailed info of what they have been up to what they are doing and when they want to get together
i did ask for it and in my opinion wouldnt he have just cut to the chase and been like hey what are you doing sunday wanna hang out? do something?
your thoughts? please
Blueworld
Blue
Listen to people...I wish I
high five!
he doesnt know everything
If he is truely a player...he