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I let rip at the narc last night

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#1 Jun 26 - 4AM
Scoop
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I let rip at the narc last night

I Ran into my narc on a night out last night . Im simply not going to stay in anymore , it was friday night a beautiful evening in Cambridge so i put my glad rags on and hit the town . I had heared a rummor that he had gone to Glastonbury although i didnt know for sure , he hadnt and we met ..Unfortunatly i had had 2 pints of beer by then and passionate anger just rose i me .. i went for it .... I told him how angry i was , how hurt i was . I think i told him i wanted him dead ...shit .. but he tryed to defend himself , he started to blame me , shame me as he has always done , he didnt give and inch . Do i feel better for it ? i dont know what i feel really , i think i was looking for some glimmer of remorse from him , some kid of recognition from him of his sick behaviour but was there was nothing . I guess i didnt expect an apology because by now in his worpt little mind he has changed reality to make himself out to be the good guy . I did remind him of one line when i was pregnant the line was "its youre fault your pregnant scoop you slept with me " he denied he said it at first and then tryed to blame me for it and then a sorry like a stroppy teenager .. I then said "youre only sorry when you get caught out when youre made to face the mirror you pathological piece of shit "... im quite happy with that ..lol
Im never going to get the sorry from him i need , there will be no recognition from him .
A couple of months ago i would be down and out for a couple of weeks over this run in but i have had a good cry and i brushed my hair and im ready to face the day secure in the knowledge he is one messed up little freak with the emotional age of six . Actualy the whole interaction was like an adult telling off a child and the child kept saying "it wasnt me miss"... and i thought this man was a life partner ....eewww .
Scoop x

Jun 27 - 1PM
Lisa E. Scott
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Scoop

Good for you! I'm glad you let him have it. You were able to think on your feet in a situation that must have been very stressful and unnerving. You should be proud you gave him a piece of your mind. Well done! He knows that you see his ugly true colors. He knows he's been unmasked.
Jun 27 - 2PM (Reply to #5)
Goldie
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I was thinking the same thing.

Hi Scoop, That was great even though it sucks to have to look at their sorry pusses. Lisa, I like you style, my sentiments exactly. I will have my day in court on Wednesday and he will soon realize that I am not that foolish little girl still in love with him and as much as I dont' want to look at that phoney, lying, two faced, face, I am going to love every minute of telling them all the TRUTH once and for all. Also I have an awesome new haircut, beautiful make up that I was not even wearing anymore cuz I was so buzy crying all the time, and I have already lost half the weight I gained from my anxiety eating while with him, so they can eat their hearts out cuz like they say: the best revenge is a life well lived." They are so conceited mine thinks that when I see him all buffed from working out in jail, I'm going to change my mind, they just don't get it, I'll take not perfect bod and nice over twisted and buff any day of the week. I'm lol thinking about your X with a couple of beers under his belt probalby thinking, "whe wants me" and you sure dispelled that myth in a hurry. Way to go! God Bless, Goldie
Jun 27 - 2PM (Reply to #8)
Scoop
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Yes goldie , knock him dead

Yes goldie , knock him dead in court you just show him !xx
Jun 27 - 2PM (Reply to #7)
MsVulcan500
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Goldie,

Knock him dead in court!! Let him see who the real winner is!
Jun 27 - 2PM (Reply to #6)
Lisa E. Scott
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Goldie

"The best revenge is a life well lived." Absolutely! I cannot wait for you to show him how well you're doing when you see him in court. He can eat his heart out is right. He will be shocked that you are not still hung up on him. I love it. Hold your head up high and look at him with pity, nothing more. xoxo
Jun 26 - 5AM
Scoop
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An update which say it all i

An update which say it all i think . After i left the event my girlfrind stayed on and he went up to her and said "you did a good job at winding scoop up " .... she came back with " she didnt need my help you have done a good enough job at that "... she asked me why she got the blame for my letting rip at him and i said he has to blame someone because in his head he is perfect ...he has absolutly no ownership of his behaviour .... i know no contact no contact but what if i killed him first then go no contact ? .. i dont know weather to laugh or cry ....
Jun 27 - 2PM (Reply to #3)
Scoop
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Revenge .....

So far i have remained quite to my narc and to shared friends but letting rip to him has shown him that he knows the mask is off . There was the great comment from my friend to him (she also shares a house with him ) and now i find out he has approched another girlfriend asking her "if anyone has put any pressure on them "meaning has scoop said anything to you ... He is fearfull that his conduct is comming out lol and his "good guy , man of the people image " is going down the pan ... i think its time to show select people the photos of the brusies he gave me when he went for me ......Cambridge is a small town very close knit where rummors like this go round like wild fire , he wanted a public life in politics then he has got a public life worts and all .... next step will be the vidio i have of him singing nazi marching tunes and him doing a nazi saulte , that can wate for a bit proberly for when he is due to be re elected ...mwaaahhhh...lol
Jun 26 - 5AM
NancyM
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Scoop

Hi Scoop, it sounds like even though this has happened you are putting some distance emotionally between you and that can only be a good thing. Its a funny one....what will any of us do if we happen to run into them. Also sometimes it does feel a bit empowering to be able to let rip. For me, I was piecing this stuff together without all the information and had managed to pull NC twice in a year without knowing it was a rule. Anyway the second time I let rip with everything I had..I thought If you want crazy I will give you crazy. It felt pretty good at the time I must admit. Unfortunately I did hook back in back then. Just feel sorry for the ones that have to still have contact through work, kids etc. I think next time I see my xN, and I am sure there will come a day eventually, I will just put my hand up and say "speak to the hand". Adult speaking to a child is exactly what it is.

Nevergoback